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OriginalGeek

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34. I gained a lot of weight after we got married
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 02:21 AM
Aug 2013

got married at 125 pounds then somehow got up to 180+ and it seemed it was all in my gut and my newly sausaged fingers. My ring was cutting off my circulation and had to be cut off.

We planned to melt the remains and add a little more gold and make a new ring but by the time we got around to it (many years later) we couldn't find the old ring so we forgot about it for several more years.

Then around our 25th anniversary we were looking at just getting a new ring but one day we were over at my grandpa's and he was showing me where he kept some of his stuff "just in case" (He was 90 years old then and I am the executor of his will as both my dad and uncle have already passed on so I'm next in line) when I noticed a wedding band in his jewelry case. I asked him why he had two and he said "That's my spare - several years ago I was working out in the yard and noticed I lost my wedding ring. Your grandmother wasn't having any of that and marched me down to the jewelry store and we bought that spare. Then a few years later I was out working in the yard and found the original by a sprinkler head and put the spare away...you want it?"

So I got it sized and have been wearing it ever since.

Grandpa is 92 now and still wearing his original.

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Yes - hasn't been off my finger since Dec 6, 1980! NRaleighLiberal Aug 2013 #1
I do alan_phillips Aug 2013 #2
Yes, I wear a wedding ring. We both wanted me to wear one. CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2013 #3
I did, and continued to wear it for some time after my wife passed away. Hoyt Aug 2013 #4
I'm sorry for your loss. Yavin4 Aug 2013 #11
I do, but my husband doesn't sarge43 Aug 2013 #5
I'm not married, but I definitely thought of that as a consideration. TexasTowelie Aug 2013 #35
I do, all the time sharp_stick Aug 2013 #6
When I was married, I wouldn't even have thought of NOT wearing it. It was... MiddleFingerMom Aug 2013 #7
Like a scene from a film or book. A sign indeed. :P nt Locut0s Aug 2013 #33
Yep. And I live in eternal fear Bertha Venation Aug 2013 #8
That's odd. I had a dream last night that I lost it in a snowbank. rug Aug 2013 #9
Usually not. noamnety Aug 2013 #10
Parents hit on you at conferences? narnian60 Aug 2013 #28
I haven't worn mine in years. femmocrat Aug 2013 #12
Did for a few years, but lost 2 in a year and stopped Spike89 Aug 2013 #13
I do except jrandom421 Aug 2013 #14
Only take it off when snorkeling around barracuda. nt geek tragedy Aug 2013 #15
a ring around the tub ? olddots Aug 2013 #16
Lost it, too broke to buy a replacement. nt LiberalEsto Aug 2013 #17
Lost mine driving a campervan in Tasmania. SwissTony Aug 2013 #18
No graywarrior Aug 2013 #19
I got out of the habit of wearing rings since I played with electricity. hobbit709 Aug 2013 #20
Neither myself or my wife wears a ring. Mr.Bill Aug 2013 #21
Sometimes. Never at home or when I'm exercising... Phentex Aug 2013 #22
Oh... pipi_k Aug 2013 #23
Yes, but not all the time. trof Aug 2013 #24
Yes. Neoma Aug 2013 #25
Three of them ... surrealAmerican Aug 2013 #26
My hands used to swell up and I couldn't, but then I found NightWatcher Aug 2013 #27
Yes av8rdave Aug 2013 #29
I met a shmo who wore a ring olddots Aug 2013 #30
Nope, neither of us wear a ring.... madmom Aug 2013 #31
i do, my husband generally doesn't fizzgig Aug 2013 #32
I gained a lot of weight after we got married OriginalGeek Aug 2013 #34
Yes, I don`t dare take it off. Our wedding pic. walkerbait41 Aug 2013 #36
Yes. Orsino Aug 2013 #37
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2013 #38
NO, NO, NO rurallib Aug 2013 #39
Sometimes. Not wearing it now as my hands swell with the heat. lynne Aug 2013 #40
I wear it when I'm not in the gym. a la izquierda Aug 2013 #41
I only wear mine on the weekends. Texasgal Aug 2013 #42
I never do (I'm female). My husband wears his at all times. riderinthestorm Aug 2013 #43
last month I had to have my wedding band cut off... CTyankee Aug 2013 #44
When I had to have pipi_k Aug 2013 #47
Oh, the ER had the cutting instrument, it was the local walk in clinic that didn't... CTyankee Aug 2013 #48
Not on our fingers. Raine1967 Aug 2013 #45
Yes I proudly wear my symbol of subservience! Bake Aug 2013 #46
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