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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts) Tue Sep 10, 2013, 10:32 AM Sep 2013

I am so scared. [View all]

Mrs. Venation has a lesion in her left basal ganglia. Found by CT scan last week; MRI this morning. She's also having coronary problems. She has either doctor's appointments or tests every day this week.

What the fuck is going on with my baby? I am so scared.

Have you ever been scared about the health of a loved one?

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I am so scared. [View all] Bertha Venation Sep 2013 OP

Every day. Scuba Sep 2013 #1

I'm sorry to hear it, Scuba. Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #18

Thanks. Very stressful knowing a loved one is so fragile. Vibes to you Bertha. Scuba Sep 2013 #42

Yes, I'm sure most duer's have. But when it happens to your loved one.... life long demo Sep 2013 #2

thank you, life long demo Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #19

Not as much as you, dear BV, elleng Sep 2013 #3

elleng Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #20

Sending peaceful vibes for you and healing energy for the Mrs in hopes that all goes well Tuesday Afternoon Sep 2013 #4

many thanks, T.A. Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #21

Yes. I am sorry you two have to live this. cliffordu Sep 2013 #5

I'm sorry you do, too, cliffordu Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #22

been there... handmade34 Sep 2013 #6

I'm trying Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #23

I'm so sorry for both of you. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #7

I'm sorry, In The Wind Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #24

I am so sorry to hear that. Xyzse Sep 2013 #8

I'm sorry for the shocks Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #25

It's alright Xyzse Sep 2013 #39

Yes.... CherokeeDem Sep 2013 #9

thank you, CherokeeDem Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #26

The not knowing is so damn hard.... dixiegrrrrl Sep 2013 #10

it really is, dixiegrrrl Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #27

I am so sorry you both are facing this! hedgehog Sep 2013 #11

hedgehog Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #28

Strong vibes csziggy Sep 2013 #12

thank you, csziggy Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #29

Didn't like it when my heart was acting up. And I still haven't paid all the bills... hunter Sep 2013 #13

sorry I brought up those memories, hunter Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #31

My wife has been through so many medical problems Mr.Bill Sep 2013 #14

Mr.Bill, I'm sorry to hear of this Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #32

And thank you for your good wishes. Mr.Bill Sep 2013 #43

Let us know what and when you can. Flaxbee Sep 2013 #15

I'm sorry, Flaxbee. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #16

E. Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #33

no but my wife has... madrchsod Sep 2013 #17

I am so glad you're still with us, madrchsod! Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #34

Hoping for the best. bigwillq Sep 2013 #30

bigwill Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #35

Good vibes sent your way. RiffRandell Sep 2013 #36

damn, Riff Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #37

I was once. RedCloud Sep 2013 #38

Still kicking! Great news! Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #45

Oh, B.V! So sorry for what you and Mrs. B.V. are going through LiberalEsto Sep 2013 #40

LiberalEsto Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #46

hugs steve2470 Sep 2013 #41

thanks, steve2470 Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #47

Oh no! So very, very sorry about this. And so scary! riderinthestorm Sep 2013 #44

thanks for the vibes, riderinthestorm Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #49

Sorry you are so afraid. redwitch Sep 2013 #48

thank you, redwitch Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #50

I hope she is OK Taverner Sep 2013 #51

Taverner, thank you so much. Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #52

You are both in my prayers. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #53

thank you, your majesty Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #58

aw heck bertha blueknight Sep 2013 #54

you're sweet, blueknight Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #59

I am so sorry you are both going through this Kali Sep 2013 #55

thanks so, so much, Kali Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #60

Yes graywarrior Sep 2013 #56

I'm sorry to hear it, graywarrior Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #61

Sorry to hear that and I hope Ms. Venation feels better soon davidpdx Sep 2013 #57

damn, davidpdx Bertha Venation Sep 2013 #62