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43. Think about the successes you've had in your life

Fri Sep 13, 2013, 12:35 AM

Sep 2013

Whatever they are, whenever they came, think about them, dwell on them and make sure to think of them often. You're in a negative loop that feeds itself, as you know.

And I don't mean major successes, I just mean *any* that you've had, however small. A good grade, whatever. Recall how you felt when that happened. Bring those thoughts forward and remember how it made you feel. Keep doing that. Dig into your memories for anything that made you feel good about yourself.

Maybe that will help break the cycle? Just try it. Good luck. I think you should stick with it.

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My dear Locut0s! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2013 #2

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Something that grounds me... Locut0s Sep 2013 #22

Can I say a bit more? The statements you made as examples are vanlassie Sep 2013 #35

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Excellent. A truth one can take a stand on. vanlassie Sep 2013 #51

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I commend you for posting this.. HipChick Sep 2013 #4

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About this time last year I was ready to drop out of school Tobin S. Sep 2013 #7

Second this, Locut0s. hunter Sep 2013 #15

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Locut0s, my heart really, really goes out to you. Stick with it! YOU are worth it. DebJ Sep 2013 #69

OMG thanks for this but... Locut0s Sep 2013 #70

One day, one hour, ten minutes at a time! hedgehog Sep 2013 #11

That's the mentality I wish I could adopt... Locut0s Sep 2013 #31

That's a lot of stress to be dealing with, Locut0s LiberalEsto Sep 2013 #12

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Computer Science.... Locut0s Sep 2013 #34

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Cut back on another class! And try to stop the negative tapes playing in your head riderinthestorm Sep 2013 #19

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my ideas steve2470 Sep 2013 #47

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Oh my Lord! Talk about a flashback! *hugs* College went GreenPartyVoter Sep 2013 #66

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Instead you should follow this motto: "Another Day, another A!" RedCloud Sep 2013 #72

Darn, hate to hear this but elleng Sep 2013 #73

Well, for fuck's sake, don't kill yourself. Tobin S. Sep 2013 #74

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