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Kali

(55,002 posts)
16. he may have known, I am not sure
Thu Jan 9, 2014, 11:52 PM
Jan 2014

he was very down and even said he thought he might be going, back when I saw him xmas eve, but then he really picked back up and seemed to making a comeback. New Year's Eve he was pretty upbeat but worried he couldn't hack the rehab regimen at the new (old) place. Next thing I knew Monday night, they moved him out of the rehab place to the nearby hospital. That was the last time I talked to him. He even laughed about the corn cob joke. Then Tuesday they called and moved him again to UMC, they thought they might be going to have to remove his pacemaker as it was the source of a bad infection they could not get rid of, but he was too sick for that and they called this morning to ask if I wanted to be with him. Of course I went. He went pretty fast after I got there, and he was not suffering long. He had beautiful people at UMC making sure he was comfortable and treating him with respect and dignity. That is why he liked that hospital. Circles of three years ago when Gabby Giffords was taken there.

I am so sorry the post I started this morning was misleading. I couldn't write what was imminent and I thought using "light" instead of "vibes" would be a good hint, but I was wrong. I felt so bad when I got back and saw that everybody was still hopeful.

HAPPY NEW YEARS FROM MFM posted by kali [View all] MiddleFingerMom Jan 2014 OP
I want to marry MFM. NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #1
I like how you two take turns... pacalo Jan 2014 #6
My dear MiddleFingerMom! CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2014 #2
I hope 2014 is the year you get out, and stay out of the hospital. panader0 Jan 2014 #3
Cheers to both Kali and MFM. applegrove Jan 2014 #4
^^what applegrove said^^ irisblue Jan 2014 #7
hippy nude yore struggle4progress Jan 2014 #5
oh this from the mighty GLS Kali Jan 2014 #8
His last post, through Kali, to wish us all a Happy New Year. NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #9
that is some kind of typo Kali Jan 2014 #13
Wow, I'm glad you explained about that, Kali, that he posted. NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #14
I wondered that too. nolabear Jan 2014 #15
I suck at woo Kali Jan 2014 #18
he may have known, I am not sure Kali Jan 2014 #16
Don't feel bad, it couldn't be helped, and vibes are always, always, good things to send. NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #19
Kali you have my respect and affection. Thanks for seeing him off for us. nolabear Jan 2014 #21
oh hell yes Kali Jan 2014 #24
No Kali I think you DID get through... Locut0s Jan 2014 #23
it was a fast decision to post as I left... Kali Jan 2014 #25
Good on you Kali. panader0 Jan 2014 #26
Sometimes special people enter our lives for reasons unknown, PRETZEL Jan 2014 #27
oh and the number ten... Kali Jan 2014 #17
OUCH! NYC_SKP Jan 2014 #20
LOL Kali! Remind me to tell you about my experiences with bears. nolabear Jan 2014 #22
. Tuesday Afternoon Jan 2014 #10
rest in peace alato Jan 2014 #11
oh………. Happy New Year to you too, MFM…... BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2014 #12
What a beautiful farewell warrprayer Jan 2014 #28
You were a wonderful Worried senior Jan 2014 #29
he will be missed. nt awoke_in_2003 Jan 2014 #30
K&R angstlessk Jan 2014 #31
miss your posts you big doofus Kali Feb 2014 #32
~ antiquie Feb 2014 #33
Kali, Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #39
Could this be the new Thread that never dies? LynneSin Feb 2014 #34
A little bit longer SCantiGOP Feb 2014 #35
kick Phentex Mar 2014 #52
Does it work ? /nt jakeXT Sep 2015 #55
I don't think so... Phentex Sep 2015 #56
MFM is probably reading DU anyway from somewhere.../nt jakeXT Sep 2015 #57
Sometimes I wonder what his responses would be... Phentex Sep 2015 #58
Some hair jokes probably jakeXT Oct 2015 #59
The garumphing collumphing farrump is very much Autumn Feb 2014 #36
I miss you big guy. redwitch Feb 2014 #37
*kick* Raine1967 Feb 2014 #38
Wish You Were Here. nolabear Feb 2014 #40
Kicking. nt NYC_SKP Feb 2014 #41
MFM, I didn't know you. But according to your friends and loved ones... Shampoobra Feb 2014 #42
^^^ yup, what he said Boom Sound 416 Feb 2014 #44
Big guy you have a place in all of us, somewhere around the funnybone or applegrove Feb 2014 #43
Here's a Heart MFM. Sissyk Feb 2014 #45
A heart for MFM. What a lovely way to remember him ... sabrina 1 Feb 2014 #46
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to middle finger mom trueblue2007 Feb 2014 #47
Valentine's Day kick. nt hay rick Feb 2014 #48
Kick and one_voice Feb 2014 #49
Kick and pinboy3niner Feb 2014 #50
MFM I will love and miss you always Skittles Feb 2014 #51
. Kali Jan 2015 #53
Guess what.here it is a year later and we can STILL give hearts to MFM.... dixiegrrrrl Feb 2015 #54
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