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aint_no_life_nowhere

(21,925 posts)
15. I'm through with the American healthcare system
Fri Feb 14, 2014, 06:14 PM
Feb 2014

although I don't think it deserves to even be called a system. There are a very few doctors who have patience and a good attitude towards their patients. Those doctors should be highly cherished. By the way, I have never run into an American doctor who will make an immediate appointment, and that covers every kind of specialty. Just this morning I tried to have a word with the nurse in my mother's doctor's office. I asked for 30 seconds of time on the phone. This was at 10"00 o'clock in the morning. I was told to call back at the end of the day because they were busy. Fortunately, I didn't ask for the doctor, as he only is in the office 2 days a week, as he serves on various medical boards of hospitals in an effort to increase his profitability as he attempts to slide his way into hospital management. And he's much better to deal with than my mother's other doctors. Her urologist is truly the asshole of assholes, who barely answers questions when I bring her in and who is one of those many doctors who seems to loathe the sight of the human body after spending many years in practice. Again, cherish those doctors who treat you like a human being and not just a problem to get rid of. But at 64 years of age, having been the caregiver of my mother and other members of my family through innumerable hospitalizations and health issues, I have generally run into asshole after asshole. The first chance I get I will go back to Europe, where I've lived and had experience in their systems, which are much more responsive to the people and in fact afraid to earn the wrath of the people. You can report the doctor to the State Medical Board. The AMA as I understand it doesn't accept complaints but exists for the promotion of physicians and the assumption is always that the physician can do no wrong because they are sacred. It is my experience that in most cases, doctors are no more sacred than attorneys, architects, or engineers and are nothing more than businessmen in white coats.

Ridiculous situation... cyberswede Feb 2014 #1
I'm so sorry. Wait Wut Feb 2014 #2
I'm so sorry. dawg Feb 2014 #3
How we treat mental health Dyedinthewoolliberal Feb 2014 #4
good luck with things--keep us updated. i hope the doc gets back to you today. n/t orleans Feb 2014 #5
I've been there so many times I can't even count. I'm so sorry this is happening to you too. OregonBlue Feb 2014 #6
I am fortunate in that my son will go to the hospital on his own accord DebJ Feb 2014 #8
Yes, sometimes the police take my son to the hospital but when he gets very out there, he can OregonBlue Feb 2014 #10
So awful and scary. Like you said, it just doesn't have to be like this riderinthestorm Feb 2014 #7
Thanks everyone. THIS time, the doctor called back and a med change was ordered! n/t DebJ Feb 2014 #9
so happy to hear that fizzgig Feb 2014 #11
So glad to hear! Wait Wut Feb 2014 #12
Thank the Goddess libodem Feb 2014 #13
call them back every ten minutes 2pooped2pop Feb 2014 #14
My son is good at that....with the bipolar he just CAN'T let go of anything DebJ Feb 2014 #16
lol 2pooped2pop Feb 2014 #19
I'm through with the American healthcare system aint_no_life_nowhere Feb 2014 #15
Seeing a specialist around here does take a few weeks, but our DebJ Feb 2014 #17
Hubby was treated at an ER near Juan le Pain (spelling?) in France. DebJ Feb 2014 #18
suggestion: write Mrs. Obama or Mrs. Biden. grasswire Feb 2014 #20
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