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In reply to the discussion: Come on, fess up. [View all]

IrishAyes

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26. If I may be forgiven ONE more story:
Sun Feb 16, 2014, 11:41 PM
Feb 2014

A particular 'friend' wanted to go with me to see the Grand Canyon, one of my favorite places on earth, so when I went to pick her up that morning (long drive), she came out in a garden party dress with high heels. When her broken ankle was barely healed. I suggested she get something she could walk in because even though we were going to catch a bus in Flag, there would still be a lot of walking involved.

No, she had to wear her prissy heels. So by the time the bus pulled up to the first tour stop, she announced her foot hurt too bad for her to walk and I should stay with her because she was afraid to be alone on that big scary bus. I reminded her about her stubborness with shoes and said point blank, I didn't drive all the way up here to sit on a bus and babysit. So I got off there and every other stop and had one whale of a good time. She never tried to tag along again. I would've enjoyed reasonable company, but she didn't meet muster.

Remember what Eleanor Roosevelt said; nobody can make you feel inferior (or in this case, manipulated) without your consent.

Come on, fess up. [View all] rug Feb 2014 OP
It usually works. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #1
The real test of a master is to shrug your shoulders and let go of the door as soon as they speed up rug Feb 2014 #2
Yeah. But I would never do that irl. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #4
Me either. rug Feb 2014 #5
Never. 840high Feb 2014 #12
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There's a simple way to deal with this Shampoobra Feb 2014 #6
Elevators...I hit the close door button HipChick Feb 2014 #7
There are only two elevators in my town. rug Feb 2014 #8
omg.. HipChick Feb 2014 #9
I just remembered a game learned from what I heard about IrishAyes Feb 2014 #20
Lol, I wish you hadn't told me that. rug Feb 2014 #34
Well, I figured you might be short of bad habits and I like to share with my friends. IrishAyes Feb 2014 #35
Maybe you need a hobby? trof Feb 2014 #10
He already has a hobby. Playing with us. IrishAyes Feb 2014 #11
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Why? Do you feel as if you're losing? Rug wields a sharp wit, but he never draws blood. IrishAyes Feb 2014 #18
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If I may be forgiven for tooting my own horn, IrishAyes Feb 2014 #13
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If you like that sort of book, IrishAyes Feb 2014 #16
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I have a friend who is consistently late NV Whino Feb 2014 #24
If I may be forgiven ONE more story: IrishAyes Feb 2014 #26
Yep. NV Whino Feb 2014 #27
Reminded me of the beginning of "Thelma and Louise" marzipanni Feb 2014 #37
So THAT'S what's been wrong w/me all these years! IrishAyes Feb 2014 #38
Apparently I upset someone who deleted a couple of answers to my posts. IrishAyes Feb 2014 #21
If I had an inkling pipi_k Feb 2014 #22
Good for you. And thanks for the extra tips. No matter how expert we might be, IrishAyes Feb 2014 #36
How is that passive aggressive? Duer 157099 Feb 2014 #23
Passive aggression has to do with control NV Whino Feb 2014 #25
I thought it was defined as when actions don't match the words Duer 157099 Feb 2014 #28
It takes many forms NV Whino Feb 2014 #29
Hmm, thanks for that link Duer 157099 Feb 2014 #30
I hate being late so much that I'm chronically early, another problem altogether. NV Whino Feb 2014 #32
The only personality type harder to deal with than a dedicated hardcore destructive IrishAyes Feb 2014 #31
"Minnesota nice" is another phrase for "passive-aggression". Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #33
Yep, geardaddy Feb 2014 #40
I am too and I currently live in Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #41
There are definitely exceptions to the rule geardaddy Feb 2014 #42
Only for another couple of months or so. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #43
Well, early congrats on your graduation. geardaddy Feb 2014 #44
Thank you. Vashta Nerada Feb 2014 #45
I only hold the door for someone geardaddy Feb 2014 #39
I'll point out the "awkward zone" to door holders if I have to. Gidney N Cloyd Feb 2014 #46
Lol! Especially the second one. rug Feb 2014 #47
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