I know a few people with fibromyalgia and it is a very difficult condition.
My son was diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome several years ago while he was in college. I won't go into detail about the number of doctors, tests, and the cost. It's taken time but he's learned to live with his condition.
Two thoughts: Find support and information online. He and I researched the heck out of it. Knowledge is a tool. Second, seek out a doctor or doctors who accept fibromyalgia as a diagnosis. We wasted years and thousands of dollars on doctors who refused to see my son's myriad symptoms as all pointing to one thing. They insisted he had to have several different problems (that all came on at once, how odd 
) and refused to even consider anything else. We saw every specialist under the sun until we sought out a chronic fatigue specialist.
Today my son is 27, gainfully employed and lives a happy life. He knows his limits but with the help of an internist and an allergist, both of whom respect the CF diagnosis, he's doing great.
It took time but it did happen. I hope you can find the same. 
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