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magical thyme

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7. it's the first time I've had a patient ask personal questions
Tue Jul 22, 2014, 01:39 PM
Jul 2014

and while it didn't horribly upset me in the moment, it did afterwards when it had a chance to sink in, because this is the hospital where I was stalked by a brain-damaged, alcoholic janitor for a year.

And yes, I think it is because I am a woman, and a transplant, in a rural area where the locals all know each other.

At the moment I'm upset because I was making a gram stain last week and a doctor came in with a spec he wanted to check for crystals and then leave for a gram stain. So he was babbling on about inanities (much like your patients) while I'm trying to do my work.

And then he switched to babbling about the spec and suddenly starts poking me in the back, saying, "This is the spot I got the specimen from. Right about here" while digging his finger into my back!!!!

While I'm standing over the sink trying to decolorize a gram stain!!!!!!

I guarantee he would NEVER have done that to a man.

No. It's become part of life ... hurry up and wait. In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #1
Hey! Aristus Jul 2014 #2
Hey yourownfineself. How are things in the 100 acre woods? In_The_Wind Jul 2014 #3
Ha! Aristus Jul 2014 #4
I had one of our regulars wanting to know why I'm not married magical thyme Jul 2014 #5
Whew! Aristus Jul 2014 #6
it's the first time I've had a patient ask personal questions magical thyme Jul 2014 #7
I agree. Aristus Jul 2014 #9
exactly. magical thyme Jul 2014 #10
I honestly had to laugh pipi_k Jul 2014 #8
Yes, but... Chan790 Jul 2014 #11
I agree. Listening is important. Aristus Jul 2014 #12
Fair enough. n/t Chan790 Jul 2014 #13
I love my doctors but it was a challenge to find ones Phentex Jul 2014 #14
I'm not ashamed to say I love my patients. (Most of them.) Aristus Jul 2014 #15
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