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Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
Thu Sep 4, 2014, 03:42 PM Sep 2014

My son's best friend just made me cry. [View all]

My son moved to MO a year ago with his wife. His bf from the Marines had gotten him a job there. I was supposed to go see them this summer with a side trip to Chicago to see my sister, but the money gods had other plans. I miss them so much it hurts. On top of that, life has just been downright disappointing, lately. I've been freakin' sad.

His buddy just texted me and asked if I could get a long weekend for my son's upcoming birthday. He wants to buy me a plane ticket.

Damnit. I don't know what to do. His buddy just bought a house, a new dog, a new bike, etc. I hate thinking of him paying, but even $281 is a lot of money for me, at the moment. I was also (lying to myself) and saying that I would save up the money to take a week off and see them next spring and then drive over to see my sister. This would sort of negate that whole scenario.

I need some happy in my life. I don't know what to do. Crap.

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I only want to say one thing: TAKE THE MONEY, SAY THANK YOU, AND GO! CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2014 #1
I'm thinking about it. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #7
I agree with Peggy--GO, GO, GO, GO, GO! KatyaR Sep 2014 #34
Please allow your son's buddy to buy you a plane ticket Xyzse Sep 2014 #2
I love doing things like this for others. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #8
It is hard to be on the receiving end sometimes. Xyzse Sep 2014 #10
Madame Wahrsagerin says antiquie Sep 2014 #3
I hope she's right! Wait Wut Sep 2014 #11
You're going to piss some people off... Callmecrazy Sep 2014 #4
LOL!!! Wait Wut Sep 2014 #12
Sounds like his buddy would LOVE IT if you accepted the ticket :) arcane1 Sep 2014 #5
He's a great kid. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #13
take him up on his offer Skittles Sep 2014 #6
That is another option. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #14
yee haw! ACCEPT! Skittles Sep 2014 #17
Do as CaliforniaPeggy suggested: Take the ticket, say thank you and GO. In_The_Wind Sep 2014 #9
I know. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #15
I hope you can work it out. In_The_Wind Sep 2014 #16
If you're near a train route, marzipanni Sep 2014 #36
Go! by all means. Enjoy yourself. panader0 Sep 2014 #18
Just take the offer. I've done the same for other people and it's rewarding beyond measure. Lochloosa Sep 2014 #19
Happiness is making plans to do fun stuff in the near future, and sticking to them. iscooterliberally Sep 2014 #20
Accept this wonderful gift. Raine1967 Sep 2014 #21
I smell a consensus in the lounge....amazing! hibbing Sep 2014 #22
Go, enjoy and pay it forward someday. TeamPooka Sep 2014 #23
i know where you're coming from fizzgig Sep 2014 #24
Take the ticket and GO! mnhtnbb Sep 2014 #25
Tickets. Feet. Plane. Go. n/t Smarmie Doofus Sep 2014 #26
You graciously accept, because BF knows your son wants to see you. IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #27
You mention you've given to others Le Taz Hot Sep 2014 #28
My mom used to say, "Be a gracious receiver." Lydia Leftcoast Sep 2014 #29
You've answered your own question. Avalux Sep 2014 #30
GO! redwitch Sep 2014 #31
go Kali Sep 2014 #32
Tell him to throw in the plane peanuts and you'll go. rug Sep 2014 #33
Allow this fine young man the privilege of being generous. 3catwoman3 Sep 2014 #35
Life is far too short Tsiyu Sep 2014 #37
^^^^^^ +1 million hopemountain Sep 2014 #38
Go. WilliamPitt Sep 2014 #39
GO. LWolf Sep 2014 #40
Any followup? Ron Obvious Sep 2014 #41
Attention Wait Wut: antiquie Sep 2014 #42
No, it wouldn't be until the first week of December. Wait Wut Sep 2014 #43
Oops, didn't realize that. antiquie Sep 2014 #44
LOL! It's actually... Wait Wut Sep 2014 #45
go! dammit Liberal_in_LA Sep 2014 #46
What a thoughtful gesture! Generic Brad Sep 2014 #47
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