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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Fri Jan 23, 2015, 01:49 AM Jan 2015

Update on the condo pet issue thing. ONLY giving a one time update as a few requested. [View all]

I had EVERY intention to stay away but I got a few PMs requesting I keep them inform. I figure this is the best way to give people the update.

The Lawyer visit still has us wondering what happened. We went to see a lawyer about the pet issue considering one set of rules said pets are allow and another said dogs only and the Sec of the condo assoc wrote in her letter to us that ONLY CERTAIN PEOPLE HAD PERMISSION TO HAVE PET VISITS. We did not have that right. First the guy said we had a case then we didn't then we did and while talking to him he accused me of "dominating" him and threw us out of his office.


So My wife is going to a different way. She is going to try and change the rule. She is going for the big guns and going to change the rule that pets can't live in the units.

This is her letter that she wrote to the President and Secretary/Treasure.

This is what she sent them:
Just because a rule is in place over so many years DOES NOT MEAN IT CAN NOT BE OVER TURNED! I will fight TO MY DYING BREATH to see pet ownership—especially cat ownership is allowed. I will petition my fellow Condo dwellers every week, month, and year to help me overturn this rule.

Also you cannot post conflicting rules and decide which rules is going to fit your whims! One posting says pets while another paper says dogs only and IT IS NOT FAIR to give CERTAIN PEOPLE PERMISSION AND NOT OTHERS.

This letter is not meant as a threat just an intent to let you know my goal and if it is a long fight with the condo association I will not back down on the issue. Some issues are worth fighting for and in order for this place to feel like a home to me I need a pet(s). I did try your way without a pet but this place feels cold and lonely. I also want you to know had I been allowed to have a visit with a cat I would not even be writing this letter or taking these steps.

TO MY DYING BREATH I WILL FIGHT TO SEE PET OWNERSHIP IS ALLOWED:
_____

She also now has signs hanging on all our windows facing the parking lot which read Change the Rules.

The day we went to see the lawyer the President had the nerve to come out of her unit smiling at us like nothing was wrong and talk to us. My wife was livid she turned to the woman and in a firm tone said Do Not SPEAK to me. The woman looked down shamefully almost like she felt guilty (at least that is how I interrupted her actions)

My wife plans on writing to every owner in the two buildings that make up our condo association every week pleading her case as to why pets should be allowed.


What's even worse is that earlier this week where going to have direct TV installed. We saw one rule stating satellite dishes are allowed another stating Dish is now allowed as well. So my wife had me go down and make sure we are allowed direct TV. I specifically asked if DIRECT TV could be installed. The Secretary/Treasure said yes. Then when direct TV came and he started to look to see what type of wiring we had she started yelling at the guy that no holes can be drill. Why this psycho didn't tell me this before when I asked I didn't know.

The wires in the condo would not support direct TV without having outages. They would have to run new lines. So we couldn't do it. BUT there are a couple units with dishes. SO if they have satellite TV those lines must have been ran so I think this woman is trying to screw with us. that is the only thing I can think.

So this is the update a few of you requested. Sorry if it bothers some of you who think I am posting to much. It won't happen again.

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It doesn't bother me! I'm glad to see your wife is being proactive mackerel Jan 2015 #1
your wife should tone down her letter, a bit. KMOD Jan 2015 #2
That letter is way too emotional and needs to be toned down. R B Garr Jan 2015 #3
I'm concerned about the interraction with the lawyer, elleng Jan 2015 #4
One other thing: you can ask for the Minutes from previous HOA meetings R B Garr Jan 2015 #6
Yes, and to do this effectively, elleng Jan 2015 #7
I have to agree with the tone of the letter. You really do "catch more flies with honey..." Rhiannon12866 Jan 2015 #5
Yeah, I have to agree. cwydro Jan 2015 #13
turn it down a few notches hibbing Jan 2015 #29
yes, really blackcrow Jan 2015 #8
Sounds a tad overly dramatic. Certain not in any way, professional. SammyWinstonJack Jan 2015 #9
"certainly would not change the rules for them": The rules are allegedly being applied arbitrarily. WinkyDink Jan 2015 #14
Diabeticman, cwydro Jan 2015 #10
I agree completely. femmocrat Jan 2015 #15
I absitively agree with both of you. Tobin S. Jan 2015 #18
My wife did send the letter to the two women. I have asked her to let me ask here for help. diabeticman Jan 2015 #19
The window signs could be a problem- cwydro Jan 2015 #20
I would tone that letter down a lot magical thyme Jan 2015 #11
Dial way down the tone of that letter. HappyMe Jan 2015 #12
annoyng the heck out of the other owners with weekly letters is not going to help either. blackcrow Jan 2015 #28
Have you looked at the Condo/HOA Declaration to see what the actual process is for changing a rule Lex Jan 2015 #16
I imagine you both feel like you're surrounded by enemies right about now. LiberalAndProud Jan 2015 #17
Personally, I'd be getting the hell cwydro Jan 2015 #55
Some Condo's unfortunately become benld74 Jan 2015 #21
Do you have a printed copy of your association's CC&R's? CreekDog Jan 2015 #22
We were sent 2 down-loadable files. Half of what we have is photocopies of hand writtien items. diabeticman Jan 2015 #23
what about the copies you signed when you bought your property? CreekDog Jan 2015 #24
To my knowledge...or let me put it this way I don't remember signing a paper stating I got a hard diabeticman Jan 2015 #25
You signed the CC&R's, but you didn't get a copy of what you signed? CreekDog Jan 2015 #26
Let me go through all the paperwork again. I guess the PDA/ down loable files were my copy. diabeticman Jan 2015 #27
Did you sign the CC&R's or not? CreekDog Jan 2015 #30
My mother lives in a condo. cwydro Jan 2015 #31
Not all rules are good, but there's obviously a need for rules in a condo community CreekDog Jan 2015 #32
Oh I understand. cwydro Jan 2015 #35
I do not see anything saying it is a CC&R--in fact I never heard of that term until talking about diabeticman Jan 2015 #33
Something about CC&Rs: elleng Jan 2015 #34
You signed stuff without reading it? blackcrow Jan 2015 #36
Not trying to be mean here - Have you been to a property closing? Algernon Moncrieff Jan 2015 #41
stepping in cautiously here... Phentex Jan 2015 #42
From what I understand, they lost their pet(s) before moving into the condo. demmiblue Jan 2015 #43
that's not what I read... Phentex Jan 2015 #45
Yes, I remember that one cat died in late November. betsuni Jan 2015 #46
and something about not enough volume in a football to deflate Phentex Jan 2015 #47
And also, for the record, in October: betsuni Jan 2015 #56
I lived in a mixed condo/rental complex in Florida Algernon Moncrieff Jan 2015 #48
i don't understand the weight thing... Phentex Jan 2015 #50
I think the theory was a cat or a small dog Algernon Moncrieff Jan 2015 #51
And we all scroll through the internet agreement crap. cwydro Jan 2015 #53
I've been to two property closings blackcrow Jan 2015 #52
Your a better person than I am Algernon Moncrieff Jan 2015 #54
I'll ask my mom about it. cwydro Jan 2015 #37
CC&R = by-laws. demmiblue Jan 2015 #44
Drama....shudder. This is approaching restraining order level. alphafemale Jan 2015 #49
CreekDog is right (I don't believe I actually just wrote that) Algernon Moncrieff Jan 2015 #40
The letter needs to be professional and MUST be proofread... a la izquierda Jan 2015 #38
This is true. cwydro Jan 2015 #39
Durn, cwydro Jan 2015 #57
YOU WANT UPDATES! No there was no hard copy of the By laws and no there was no paper we sign diabeticman Jan 2015 #58
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