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14. Same to you. We are in the process of changing our wills because

Mon Apr 20, 2015, 11:46 AM

Apr 2015

my youngest is about to turn 18. We are registered with the Memorial Society and that takes care of most details but it's time to sit down with both kids and talk about our wishes. If I go first, I trust my husband to carry out my wishes but if he were to go first, it may be trickier. His family would want a typical church service/memorial and we are non church goers at this point in our lives. I would probably have a party with old friends and lots of alcohol.

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When her time comes, my lovely mother wants me to write a 'funny' obit for her [View all] fleur-de-lisa Apr 2015 OP

Is there some habit of hers that she does to excess? Always makes too many biscuits? PoliticAverse Apr 2015 #1

Have you seen this obit? mnhtnbb Apr 2015 #2

This post inspired me to write my own... Phentex Apr 2015 #6

oh my. mnhtnbb Apr 2015 #9

Listen to Garrison Keillor NJCher Apr 2015 #3

Hmmm... pipi_k Apr 2015 #4

is she looking for a smile or guffaws dembotoz Apr 2015 #5

What are her hobbies and interests? Phentex Apr 2015 #7

Interview her as if you hadn't met her before. DeSwiss Apr 2015 #8

After my Dad died, we talked with his minister and shared stories about Dad csziggy Apr 2015 #10

SAME thing happened to us! Phentex Apr 2015 #11

Condolences on your losses csziggy Apr 2015 #13

Same to you. We are in the process of changing our wills because Phentex Apr 2015 #14

My sister and her husband have pre-purchased their plans csziggy Apr 2015 #15

Something else I just remembered pipi_k Apr 2015 #12