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dballance

(5,756 posts)
Sat May 2, 2015, 08:32 PM May 2015

I Can't Beleive I'm Doing This but I'm Desperate. Need Assistance [View all]

I'm a long-time member of DU and have been happy to serve multiple terms on MIRT. I know some of you have disagreed with my posts at times. That's okay. If we all had the exact same opinions this wouldn't be a very interesting place. Here is a link and the text of my gofundme page.

link: http://www.gofundme.com/t2afj27f

2014 was not the best year I've had. In late January I broke my left humerus. The first surgery to fix it didn't work nor did the second surgery to correct the first one.

What is worse is during the second surgery I got a staph infection at the hospital. That meant, that since the bone was infected they had to remove part of it. The upper part that connects to the shoulder. After surgery number 3 to remove the infected bone I was on heavy antibiotics for 8 weeks. That entailed infusing antibiotics three times a day into a catherter that was inserted into my arm and reached right over to my heart.

Needless to say, this was all very bad for trying to maintain the IT Contract work I do.

Finally, I had surgeries number 4 and 5 in September to get a compelete shoulder replacement. That entailed more hospital time and physical therapy.

Through all of last year I lived on my savings and early withdrawals from my pension. Now I'm out of resources. I've applied for food stamps and I continue to seek work. Seeking work is difficult at my age and given I had so much time off.

I have, thankfully the ACA to pay for medical bills. Otherwise I'd have been bankrupt about 4 surgeries ago.

I am, as of May 1st, 4 months behind on rent. I will not be able to pay my car and renter's insurance mid-month. I will also loose my internet-only connection. I cut cable last year and my wireless phone late in the month. I need both of those to continue my job search.

Any help and well wishes would be appreciated.

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I'm so sorry you have had such horrible things happen marym625 May 2015 #1
Thanks! /nt dballance May 2015 #2
I'd put this in GD and delete it here... many many many more people in GD steve2470 May 2015 #3
K&R Joe Shlabotnik May 2015 #4
OMG Kali May 2015 #5
Thank you! dballance May 2015 #15
You also might try this site DJ13 May 2015 #6
I understand. I can't even get healthcare, much less hospitalization. Likely have to move next year. freshwest May 2015 #7
K & R Petrushka May 2015 #8
Thank you! dballance May 2015 #14
kick Tobin S. May 2015 #9
Sounds like everything bad coming your way at once. DFW May 2015 #10
Thank you! dballance May 2015 #12
Keep up the morale as long as you can DFW May 2015 #16
Kick Petrushka May 2015 #11
Thanks for the thoughts, suggestions and contributions. dballance May 2015 #13
bump nt steve2470 May 2015 #17
kick! Lady Freedom Returns May 2015 #18
Wow! Goal met! missingthebigdog May 2015 #19
+1 Joe Shlabotnik May 2015 #20
Apply for disability! TexasBushwhacker May 2015 #21
Holy Shit! Thanks all. dballance May 2015 #22
Just saw this thread, haven't been on DU much lately due to computer issues, but K&R from me! Rhiannon12866 May 2015 #23
Been there Puzzledtraveller May 2015 #24
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