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hamsterjill

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29. Some posters are simply so passionate about an issue that they fail to read carefully, I think.
Tue Jul 7, 2015, 12:44 PM
Jul 2015

I got into trouble "defending" Darren Wilson, unfortunately. And all that I ever said was that, by law, he was innocent until proven guilty and that he was entitled to the rights afforded him through the judicial system.

I never indicated whether I (personally) thought he was innocent. But I certainly believe that everyone, including Darren Wilson, is entitled to their rights under the law. Because I dared even broach the subject rather than going along with the prevalent angry mentality on DU at that moment, I got slammed. Posters were not reading what I wrote with comprehension, but were only seeing the name "Darren Wilson" and the word "innocent" in the same paragraph, and getting mad over that.

It was the first time in ten years on DU that I'd been followed around and had other posters say that they thought I was a racist. It hurt a lot, particularly, since I was at one time married to someone outside of my own race. I considered leaving DU over it, too, because I felt the discussion group had reached a new low and was going in the wrong direction.

Then I realized that this particular group was just a bunch of mean-spirited people who were not allowing discussion on a DISCUSSION board. They were trying to make it "their way or the highway" and if someone didn't subscribe to their hate mongering to the degree THEY deemed appropriate, that they were trying to squelch discussion. They were obviously either not taking the time to comprehend postings, or were too ignorant to comprehend what had been written. I noticed that these posters were getting very high post counts in short periods of time. For me, I don't post just to increase my post count.

At that point, I put the most volatile of them on ignore, and I haven't missed a thing.



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Ah geez! Who could be a jerk to you?!?! You're one of DU's best! Coventina Jul 2015 #1
well, thanks...I just was shocked that an opinion could be called "filthy." CTyankee Jul 2015 #4
Haven't done it yet, yank, elleng Jul 2015 #2
Yes, I just felt that there was so much good to experience here, why put up with something you would CTyankee Jul 2015 #5
Same Here ProfessorGAC Jul 2015 #26
SMART of you to pick up on it, Professor! elleng Jul 2015 #28
I have used it--usually for only a day or two hlthe2b Jul 2015 #3
this came as a real shock to me... CTyankee Jul 2015 #6
If it's who I think it is from your xanax thread this morning, you showed amazing restraint. Gidney N Cloyd Jul 2015 #7
No it was on a gun thread. I think the poster self deleted and I self deleted most of mine. CTyankee Jul 2015 #8
Actually, it's kind of funny just the thought of a xanax thread as going out of control... CTyankee Jul 2015 #9
Don't bear any guilt trips over using the Ignore function. Paladin Jul 2015 #10
Generally, I can just ignore folks by not clicking on their posts... Wounded Bear Jul 2015 #11
That's what I do Major Nikon Jul 2015 #19
Can you read this? panader0 Jul 2015 #12
just your sig line...what's up? CTyankee Jul 2015 #13
Just checking to see if I was the one on ignore. lol panader0 Jul 2015 #14
my goodness, why would I do that? CTyankee Jul 2015 #15
It's like the last song about Satan seveneyes Jul 2015 #16
I only did it once IrishEyes Jul 2015 #17
I blocked someone here once. I had to they wouldn't stop sending mackerel Jul 2015 #18
It makes Du a much nicer place Marrah_G Jul 2015 #20
You know, in our own lives most of us have had to literally avoid people who become CTyankee Jul 2015 #21
Nicely put. (nt) Paladin Jul 2015 #22
Exactly Marrah_G Jul 2015 #34
Like you, I'd really not used it much. hamsterjill Jul 2015 #23
the gun issue is a difficult one for DU to deal with. CTyankee Jul 2015 #25
Some posters are simply so passionate about an issue that they fail to read carefully, I think. hamsterjill Jul 2015 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author olddots Jul 2015 #24
I've Been Here RobinA Jul 2015 #27
I have....I looked at my list and found Burma Jones Jul 2015 #30
hmm, that's interesting... CTyankee Jul 2015 #31
Ignore AND "trash thread" and "block" options dixiegrrrrl Jul 2015 #32
Ah, it's the anonymity thing here at DU...unlike the real world but yes...in the real CTyankee Jul 2015 #33
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