The DU Lounge
In reply to the discussion: Seeking "cat-whisperer" advice ---- RE: New Cat in the house, compatibility with my older cat, etc [View all]nikto
(3,284 posts)The den is Opie's refuge so far.
Krishna knows he's in here, and walks by frequently.
Visual contact and scents are able to be freely exchanged (not much so far), but the gate adds
a sense of safety, perhaps, for both cats.
Since neither is a dominant personality (they both seem a little spooked by the other, which is OK with me, for now).
The Feliway is blasting full-out right nearby the den door. Hope it helps.
But I really hope time and exposure will be the key.
They both are the kind of low-key cats who like to lie around/hang out contentedly near people.
There's lots of opportunity and locations for a couple of mellow cats to do that around my house.
I'm hoping it will all come together after a time.
I'll keep everybody posted.
And thanks to you and everyone else for the great advice!