What would you do? (marital 'infidelity'?)

[pitohui]

128. get a lawyer to screw the one who's working? i don't get it

she earns big bucks and he's fucking around while she's working so you tell him that she had some "feelings' and she's the one who should pay for everything?

ok, i don't get it but I will admit that women who have kids w. men who sit on their ass not working and dreaming up ways to screw them have major problems w./ self esteem

let's see, have the babies, carry them for 9 months apiece in your body AND have the big job that earns all the money AND just do everything AND let mentally ill man then come back and wine and moan and take money for nothing and set yr kids the example of a man who doesn't work sitting on his ass? i'm sorry, trof, i'm usually on your side but this just ain't happening

by siding with the no hoper you are voting to put the kids in a household where they are brought up where the man has no chance except to rip off others, society doesn't benefit from pushing that, the kids will have miserable life forever if that's their dream

put aside your sensitive feelings and focus on ACTIONS instead of wooo-wooo feelings because at the end of the day it's what you DO that counts not what you feel, sheesh, do you really need a woman to tell you what every man over age 11 once knew by instinct?

it ain't the thoughts and feelings that count, it's the ACTION that counts

if she actually cheated on him m-kay, if she feels cheated by this man who ain't a man but she's just trying to goose him, that's another story, and the dude should get off his duff and get a fucking job