I could use a hug and some sympathetic outrage.

[auntAgonist]

24. I am glad you fought for your Dad. I'm so terribly sorry for your tremendous loss DebJ

What a beautiful relationship you had with your Mom.

I feel visitations are necessary for a lot of people. Some disagree and that's ok too.

When my Mum passed away my Dad thought he didn't want a viewing. I worked in the funeral home and spoke to him gently of why I thought it important that he at least should have that final goodbye. He agreed and the deal was that if he felt after viewing her that he would have her casket closed to other viewing then that's what would happen.
You see, my Dad was afraid. For months my Mum had lingered and he saw her as so ill, he didn't want anyone else to see her that way.

My thought and goal was for him to see her in a much better light. I did the prep - dressing, hair and make-up for my Mum and when the time came only my Dad and I went in to view her. He immediately broke down and thanked me for giving him back the woman he loved.

I wanted him to remember her in beauty not in sickness.

He asked that the casket remain open for the rest of the visitation and proudly escorted his friends to view his bride.
She looked so pretty in death.

I'm sorry, I got off track and this isn't about me at all. I understand your need and your father's need to have that special time.

Your sisters might not realize it but they have been hurtful and selfish. I'm glad you fought for your Dad.

My sincerest condolences to you and yours. May the memories you hold dear fill your heart with joy in the days to come.

Your DadMom raised a wonderful daughter.

sincerely.
aA
kesha