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In reply to the discussion: Get it off your chest: current most detested / trite phrase or word.... [View all]Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,486 posts)59. "I'm humbled."
The New York Times Magazine had a good piece on this by By Carina Chocano
Calling Yourself Humbled Doesnt Sound as Humble as It Used To
These days, humility is not what it used to be. It may even be the opposite of what it used to be. A few days before Christmas, Donald Trump presented his former campaign managerwith the title counselor to the president. In response, Kellyanne Conway declared herself humbled and honored, a sentiment she echoed later that day on CNN: Im just really pleased and frankly very humbled to take on this role in the West Wing, near the president. Then she went on Twitter to reassure her boss that power hadnt changed her, and that she was still the same old true-blue, fawning, deferential Kellyanne: Grateful & humble, @realDonaldTrump, she wrote.
We are living in humbling times. People are humbled all over the place. Lately its pro forma possibly even mandatory for politicians, athletes, celebrities and other public figures to be vocally and vigorously humbled by every honor awarded, prize won, job offered, record broken, pound lost, shout-out received, like copped and thumb upped.
We are living in humbling times. People are humbled all over the place. Lately its pro forma possibly even mandatory for politicians, athletes, celebrities and other public figures to be vocally and vigorously humbled by every honor awarded, prize won, job offered, record broken, pound lost, shout-out received, like copped and thumb upped.
Diving at random into the internet and social media finds this new humility everywhere. A soap-opera actress on tour is humbled by the outpouring of love from fans. Comedians are humbled by big laughs, yoga practitioners are humbled by achieving difficult poses, athletes are humbled by good days on the field, Christmas volunteers are humbled by their own generosity and holiday spirit.
There are many downsides to our worship of fame and money, and one is that it makes people confuse sucking up to the rich and famous with spirituality.
And yet none of these people sound very humbled at all. On the contrary: They all seem exceedingly proud of themselves, hashtagging their humility to advertise their own status, success, sprightliness, generosity, moral superiority and luck.
There are many downsides to our worship of fame and money, and one is that it makes people confuse sucking up to the rich and famous with spirituality.
And yet none of these people sound very humbled at all. On the contrary: They all seem exceedingly proud of themselves, hashtagging their humility to advertise their own status, success, sprightliness, generosity, moral superiority and luck.
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Get it off your chest: current most detested / trite phrase or word.... [View all]
hlthe2b
Mar 2017
OP
I hate hearing the word "like" in ever sentence, sometimes two or 3 times.
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Mar 2017
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My grandson's wife graduated magna cum laude from college almost 10 years ago and that
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I'm going to go out on a limb, here, and guess that you're over 55 years old.
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Mar 2017
#261
Yep...me too but,replaced by "In this day and age" WTF does that even mean?? n/t
Bengus81
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#81
I thought snowflakes were fertilized eggs in cryo. Didn't they call them that for awhile?
CrispyQ
Apr 2017
#280
Nah! This one goes WAAAAY back! AFAIK, it's an Italian-American thang. (And so am I!)
WinkyDink
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#65
"Literally," when it is referring to something that isn't literal at all.
mahatmakanejeeves
Mar 2017
#32
Thanks, I had no idea on the origin. I always thought it was an business offer...
Blanks
Apr 2017
#299
Apologies. Didn't mean to steal your thunder. (Oopsie, 'steal your thunder'.) Can any of us'ns
sprinkleeninow
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#217
I also have some ridiculously wealthy relatives, so I feel your pain. Of course, they're RWers
Dark n Stormy Knight
Mar 2017
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Mar 2017
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