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In reply to the discussion: At what point do you cut ties with a toxic family member? [View all]Coventina
(27,119 posts)13. He has been in and out of counseling a number of times.
It never seems to "take."
His father was a master at manipulating counseling professionals into confirming his persistent victimhood and martyr status. I am a little suspicious that the son may be following in his footsteps.
You are right, he can be the most loving person at times, and then suddenly bite your face off.
I just don't know how many more times I can heal. How can there be healing without trust? I've lost my trust.
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you may continue to allow his actions but chances are society will not . exiting and not enabling
lunasun
May 2017
#5
Thanks. I think we do need to rethink our approach. It has always been unconditional.
Coventina
May 2017
#14
Yes, he most definitely needs help. And, it is clear he is not (yet) interested in truly changing.
Coventina
May 2017
#32