Mr. Tavernier passed away last Sunday.

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24. I'm so sorry for your loss

The best advice I got after my husband died was from a life insurance agent I started working for. He said don't do anything for the first year you can't get out of, don't buy anything, don't sell anything, no big permanent changes. He knew so many people who in the midst of grief made decisions and when the grief eased regretted what they had done. Make the decisions that have to be made and leave the rest for later. Someone else mentioned a bereavement counselor, they are amazing. If you have a local hospice they may have one on staff. Hang in there, it does get better.