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luvMIdog

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Sun May 28, 2017, 02:42 PM May 2017

The old man across the road died- this isn't a lighthearted topic, but I didn't know where to put it [View all]

For years before he died things were falling apart over there. He was very old and had let things go. His dogs were breeding and breeding and at one time I swear he must have had 21 dogs over there. They were even beginning to chase his two old horses around and nip at them which was really pissing me off & I made calls all to no avail. His house was being eaten up by the trees and landscape that was just overtaking it and all you could see was the roof and top window on the second story ( at least I think that is a second story unless that is an attic window. Anyway, no one ever came to check on him EVER. I knew he died when I noticed he was never checking his mailbox anymore.
Now he's dead and guess what? His family has found time to come to his house at last. They are clearing the overgrowth and hauling stuff off so they can sell it. Yep they finally made time to visit his house.

edited to add: After reading posts below I realize I've been judgmental. I just always thought they should at least help him clean the yard around his house a little bit and check on him, but as some have pointed out I didn't ever hear his family's side of the story. True.

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Please remember you don't know the whole story Warpy May 2017 #1
Don't know what to say.. furtheradu May 2017 #2
Depression can drive family members away. greymattermom May 2017 #3
Did you or other neighbors visit or offer to help? The Velveteen Ocelot May 2017 #4
I tried several times to visit him but as I said he had a huge pack of giant dogs and I couldn't luvMIdog May 2017 #6
That would certainly be a problem. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2017 #7
they kind of vanished a few months before he died all at once. I don't know why or how luvMIdog May 2017 #8
Could be the reason his family didn't show up. n/t sarge43 May 2017 #15
if they couldn't call him definitely those dogs were really mean & more or less feral luvMIdog May 2017 #16
That's the saddest part of your story sarge43 May 2017 #17
I called and called about those dogs we don't have animal control out here :( luvMIdog May 2017 #18
You tried. Respect. n/t sarge43 May 2017 #19
I have to say, my MIL died recently, the kids hated her, but they did take care of her in the end. redstatebluegirl May 2017 #5
No matter what the situation was that led up to this.... Heartstrings May 2017 #9
yeah it just struck me as sad to end up all alone luvMIdog May 2017 #10
Maybe you'd be saying the same about me. politicat May 2017 #11
gee now I just feel like an ass LOL, but thanks for the interesting story & better perspective luvMIdog May 2017 #12
No... And you may be right. politicat May 2017 #13
yes, I actually shown have thought about it more. There are people on my step moms side that were luvMIdog May 2017 #14
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