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47. The pain of his loss must be unbearable

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My husband died Friday night. [View all] zanana1 Oct 2017 OP

So sorry zanana1. My heart goes out to you. Fla Dem Oct 2017 #1

So many in pain now... My cousin (like a sister to me) just lost her spouse too hlthe2b Oct 2017 #2

So sorry for your loss. SCLumbeelady Oct 2017 #3

Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Oct 2017 #80

So sorry to hear that joeybee12 Oct 2017 #4

I'm so sorry, Zanana.. whathehell Oct 2017 #5

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts. Arkansas Granny Oct 2017 #6

the greatest loss, plus the surprising shock. I am sending you comfort. MLAA Oct 2017 #7

I can't imagine what you are going through. I have been married a long time too and fortuntely we OregonBlue Oct 2017 #8

wow, I'm so sorry for your loss NewJeffCT Oct 2017 #9

I am so sorry Freddie Oct 2017 #10

My condolences padah513 Oct 2017 #11

Sorry for your loss Stuart G Oct 2017 #12

My condolences for your loss SonofDonald Oct 2017 #13

I'm so very sorry for your loss. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2017 #14

zanana1, I am so sorry for your loss. raven mad Oct 2017 #15

I am so sorry for your loss kimbutgar Oct 2017 #16

Hi zanana1, I have lost a husband just onecent Oct 2017 #17

Sorry for your loss. N_E_1 for Tennis Oct 2017 #18

Sending you love and support zanana. cilla4progress Oct 2017 #19

I am SO SO sorry broadcaster90210 Oct 2017 #20

My. Husband of 26 years died after two weeks in the hospital. He had metastasized notdarkyet Oct 2017 #21

I'm so sorry you're in such pain. It's got to feel like your whole world just ended. n/t TygrBright Oct 2017 #22

The sudden death of someone you love is like being struck by lighting. sarge43 Oct 2017 #23

I am so sorry for your loss n/t Greywing Oct 2017 #24

I am so sorry. What a shock. mnhtnbb Oct 2017 #25

My heart goes to you and yours. Doreen Oct 2017 #26

May you.. LakeArenal Oct 2017 #27

There is a bereavement support forum on DU. milestogo Oct 2017 #28

link here steve2470 Oct 2017 #55

My dad died on 9- 11- 2000 MFM008 Oct 2017 #29

My condolences Sanity Claws Oct 2017 #30

I'm glad you know you have a source of support here True Dough Oct 2017 #31

My heartfelt condolences and thoughts are with you at this time. Take care still_one Oct 2017 #32

I had a good friend and coworker who died 2 years ago of a sudden heart attack. Initech Oct 2017 #33

So sorry zanana1---38 years is a long time. panader0 Oct 2017 #34

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Suddenly losing your life's mate is really sad. sinkingfeeling Oct 2017 #35

My condolence's to you gopiscrap Oct 2017 #36

Zanana I have not been through it but went through it with a friend. redstatebluegirl Oct 2017 #37

I am so sorry. The world has been pulled out from under your feet renate Oct 2017 #38

I'm so sorry for your loss Bettie Oct 2017 #39

My friend lost her husband when a car hit him crossing the street lunasun Oct 2017 #40

................. steve2470 Oct 2017 #41

I'm so sorry you are going through this lunamagica Oct 2017 #42

I am so sorry for your pain and your very deep loss. One thing that helped me Tanuki Oct 2017 #43

My deepest condolences for your tragic loss Moostache Oct 2017 #44

My daughter lost her husband of only murielm99 Oct 2017 #45

I'm so sorry for your loss. Delmette2.0 Oct 2017 #46

The pain of his loss must be unbearable lillypaddle Oct 2017 #47

{{{ZANANA1}}} 2014. My husband died after a short illness (4 months), two days before our 41st WinkyDink Oct 2017 #48

I can really relate to that... zanana1 Oct 2017 #74

You are welcome. Any time. WinkyDink Oct 2017 #89

I'm so sorry LeftInTX Oct 2017 #49

I lost my wife of 14 years to pneumonia. littlebit Oct 2017 #50

{{{littlebit}}} WinkyDink Oct 2017 #90

feel free to come here during your grief, our Mental Health Support group steve2470 Oct 2017 #51

I'm so very sorry. I also lost my husband. sweetroxie Oct 2017 #52

I am very sorry for your loss. RelativelyJones Oct 2017 #53

So sorry for your sudden loss pandr32 Oct 2017 #54

Oh my. I know the feeling all too well. My husband of 25 years died of a heart attack 13 years ago japple Oct 2017 #56

My husband died suddenly..... CatMor Oct 2017 #57

I am so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Oct 2017 #58

This message was self-deleted by its author PinkTiger Oct 2017 #59

I'm so sorry for your loss meow2u3 Oct 2017 #60

I am so very sorry for your loss. no words, but your DU family is here for you. niyad Oct 2017 #61

Oh no. I am truly sorry. LuckyCharms Oct 2017 #62

My condolences zanana1. denbot Oct 2017 #63

I am so sorry for your great loss. irisblue Oct 2017 #64

I am so sorry. n/t AirmensMom Oct 2017 #65

I was sixteen when my mom died of cancer. kag Oct 2017 #66

I am so sorry for your loss. hamsterjill Oct 2017 #67

my heartfelt condolences To you Zanana syringis Oct 2017 #68

My husband died a year ago spinbaby Oct 2017 #69

What spinbaby said. 🔼 Duppers Oct 2017 #71

Very sorry for your loss. So very tragic for you and your family. Fla Dem Oct 2017 #118

Vibes to you and family. applegrove Oct 2017 #70

So very sorry. Duppers Oct 2017 #72

So sorry....... peacebuzzard Oct 2017 #73

Thank you, my DU family. zanana1 Oct 2017 #75

I'm so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Oct 2017 #76

Almost a year... agingdem Oct 2017 #77

Here's my advise... agingdem Oct 2017 #83

The same thing happened to my husband.... chillfactor Oct 2017 #78

I'm so sorry zanana Maraya1969 Oct 2017 #79

You have my condolences, sorry for you loss SummerSnow Oct 2017 #81

Memory eternal shenmue Oct 2017 #82

Tears for you zanana1. IADEMO2004 Oct 2017 #84

Im very sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 2017 #85

So sorry for your loss JDC Oct 2017 #86

Oh, I'm so very sorry, zanana1. I lost my husband & best friend of 30 years on 12/17/14, so catbyte Oct 2017 #87

38 years is a damn long time. mopinko Oct 2017 #88

i am so very sorry...... samnsara Oct 2017 #91

My condolences zanana1 TxDemChem Oct 2017 #92

I'm sorry. Hamlette Oct 2017 #93

I'm so sorry for your loss jimlup Oct 2017 #94

My husband died suddenly from a heart attack rhiannon55 Oct 2017 #95

So sorry MaryMagdaline Oct 2017 #96

I am so sorry. Lifelong Protester Oct 2017 #97

Oh no! Texasgal Oct 2017 #98

I'm so very sorry for your loss MrScorpio Oct 2017 #99

My significant Other of 30 years died unexpectly in her sleep two years ago. mackdaddy Oct 2017 #100

Time heals Roy Rolling Oct 2017 #101

zanana1, I'm so sorry. badhair77 Oct 2017 #102

I am so sorry, zanana1. You should maybe find a support group of people who have gone through such tblue37 Oct 2017 #103

Mine was so close to death, that I now know that I will cry over losing him every damn day. ancianita Oct 2017 #104

I'm sorry to hear that, zanana1. GallopingGhost Oct 2017 #105

My sister and mother lost their spouses of many years. Lint Head Oct 2017 #106

Dearest zanana1 annabanana Oct 2017 #107

Love and peace to you. Freedomofspeech Oct 2017 #108

I am so sorry sharedvalues Oct 2017 #109

I'm so sorry. Which seems like such a lame thing to say in the face of what has happened to you, Squinch Oct 2017 #110

I wish I learned something that would help when my wife of 20 years passed Hoyt Oct 2017 #111

Lost my wife of 56 years tiredtoo Oct 2017 #112

So, so sorry... sending BIG virtual hugz... hope you eventually find peace and comfort. InAbLuEsTaTe Oct 2017 #113

My deepest condolences for your loss. (eom) StevieM Oct 2017 #114

... Skittles Oct 2017 #115

Very sorry. I lost my best friend to AIDS & many othes I have loved Alice11111 Oct 2017 #116

So very sorry, zanana1. Granny M Oct 2017 #117

I am so so sorry, zanana1. femmocrat Oct 2017 #119

I'm so sorry... Phentex Oct 2017 #120

Why don't you tell us something about him? Ligyron Oct 2017 #121