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Mira

(22,380 posts)
Mon Jul 28, 2014, 05:54 PM Jul 2014

She would have loved to be honored like this, my Mom who died a couple of days ago. [View all]

DU Photo folks have known Mom for years. She came to the USA and we spent time in the Keys each year - as the guests of a friend. He became wealthy enough to buy a condo there - damn fancy, too - and let her use it every year in re-payment for what he perceived saved his future when he was young:
"A preacher’s wife in a tiny German village who understood his professed need to learn things beyond farming. They had books he was to read and discussions to participate in.
He “made it” and farming was left to his siblings….."

That’s the reason the photos I’m lining up all have the flair of the US South. That’s when Mom and I were together the most. I had to go to the old country a few times for funerals, but there were no photos.

So I’m not going to say anything - I’ll just line them up. Many of you will remember her - and you will see from the photographs her love of life and her energy. She had seven children, I was her oldest.

I came here a week plus ago, and I sat at her bed for 7 days and 6 nights until she died in my arms and those of one of my remaining brothers.
I am bereft. And she is relieved after a short month of physical terror.
She was almost 90

Thanks guys for remembering her, and for looking.

The other woman dancing is an adopted sister


















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Your photos of your Mom always make me feel as if she is someone I need to meet. Solly Mack Jul 2014 #1
Thank you Solly Mack. Mira Jul 2014 #5
... alsame Jul 2014 #2
Lit candle back at you. And thanks. Mira Jul 2014 #6
Each day, something posted on DU really moves me. This OP is what I will remember about today. NRaleighLiberal Jul 2014 #3
Thank you my NC neighbor. Mira Jul 2014 #7
I'm so sorry for your loss... regnaD kciN Jul 2014 #4
Thank you - dear friend. Mira Jul 2014 #8
Yes we remember, Mira, elleng Jul 2014 #9
Your mother Worried senior Jul 2014 #10
I love the shots in her leopard outfit, especially the one where she's charging! CrispyQ Jul 2014 #11
Such beautiful photos TBF Jul 2014 #12
I omitted one Mira Jul 2014 #13
I understand that too - TBF Jul 2014 #18
i'm sorry for your loss Mira barbtries Jul 2014 #14
Oh Mira, I'm so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Mom.... Little Star Jul 2014 #15
Yes to all. Mira Jul 2014 #20
I am so sorry, Mira MissDeeds Jul 2014 #16
She is beautiful, Mira brer cat Jul 2014 #17
Please accept my condolences for your loss. MarianJack Jul 2014 #19
Yes Mira Jul 2014 #21
May you find peace and take comfort in the memories. ColesCountyDem Jul 2014 #22
Thank you - and my tears flow again Mira Jul 2014 #24
Oh, Mira, I'm so sorry. trusty elf Jul 2014 #23
Already crying. Now your words Mira Jul 2014 #26
Holding you and your family in the Light. TygrBright Jul 2014 #25
So appreciative of your words. Mira Jul 2014 #29
Beautiful lady LoisB Jul 2014 #27
Oh, Mira, I am so sorry for your loss. Curmudgeoness Jul 2014 #28
I'm doing great. Because.. Mira Jul 2014 #30
Yes, you probably are in shock. Curmudgeoness Jul 2014 #31
Thank you Mira for sharing your Mom's photos. Crewleader Jul 2014 #32
Sounds like your Mom passed Mr.Bill Jul 2014 #33
So sorry for your loss Mira. Itchinjim Jul 2014 #34
she looks like my mama. i grieve with you. the hole is vast. time is your friend. roguevalley Jul 2014 #35
Love never dies BrotherIvan Jul 2014 #36
So sorry, she seemed like someone I'd want to know. likesmountains 52 Jul 2014 #37
Thank you Mira, for sharing this with us. Scuba Jul 2014 #38
Oh, Mira. I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom. mnhtnbb Jul 2014 #39
Sorry for your loss. Thanks for introducing her to us. alfredo Jul 2014 #40
I am so sorry for your loss CC Jul 2014 #41
Your mother was a truly Callalily Jul 2014 #42
Thank you plcdude Jul 2014 #43
Beautiful. Squinch Jul 2014 #44
Namaste drlit Jul 2014 #45
awesome mama! noiretextatique Jul 2014 #46
So sorry for your loss. Mz Pip Jul 2014 #47
she just looks like she led a full, happy life . . . Rest in Peace DrDan Jul 2014 #48
your photos of your Mom make me smile handmade34 Jul 2014 #49
I'm so sorry to hear this, dear friend. bluedigger Jul 2014 #50
Sincere condolences, Mira. Blue_In_AK Jul 2014 #51
Great photos of someone who seems to have been a great character. I am so sorry for your loss. marble falls Jul 2014 #52
Gorgeous tribute! Celebration Jul 2014 #53
My sincerest condolences. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #54
May she Rest in Peace. padfun Jul 2014 #55
Wishing you peace Mira. mahina Jul 2014 #56
Beautiful photos...beautiful woman passiveporcupine Jul 2014 #57
To all you wonderful DU friends - Mira Jul 2014 #58
What a wonderful tribute... ljm2002 Jul 2014 #59
Thank you for sharing this, Mira Whoa_Nelly Jul 2014 #60
I've not been online KC Aug 2014 #61
i'm so very sorry for your loss ohheckyeah Aug 2014 #62
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