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calimary

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17. You expressed this so beautifully - poetically, even.
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 12:24 PM
Aug 2019

“A child of the troubles” - really helps bring it home. Beautifully written. Points out the sheer human poignancy of the issue.

Ancestry.com tells me I have Irish heritage too, even though I’m an adoptee. So I get this, even though several degrees removed.

Dammit - WHY do we need walls and hard borders and the hard feelings? I can get pretty Pollyanna-ish about this (WHY? WTH??? Riffing off Rodney King: “can’t we just get along?”). But seriously, why can’t we?

The walls ‘n’ borders issue certainly is making a mess in America right now. It makes me so sad. I can only guess how this must hurt you deep down within your heart. I’m so sorry. It makes me hurt for the people in ALL of Ireland. Yearning for peace and tranquility in their beautiful, storied homeland and now looking ahead to a very realistic probability of a return to more woe, more disruption, division, destruction, and bloodshed. (Especially when that woeful past is so well-documented and well within memory.) I imagine many there might be thinking what many women here do every day in America about Roe v Wade: “I thought we had this SETTLED!”

I wish we could all just get along. We’re told to share our toys in pre-school. And look how far that carries, ‘eh? When can humans really, actually, seriously, start to grow up?

I’m so sorry. I, too, thought “we had this settled.”

I am a child of the troubles [View all] Soph0571 Aug 2019 OP
K&R MaryMagdaline Aug 2019 #1
Thanks for sharing this. Mike 03 Aug 2019 #2
The Plantation of Ulster, what an everlasting nightmare that set into motion Celerity Aug 2019 #3
K&R smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #4
K & R mountain grammy Aug 2019 #5
A large percentage of Americans support the Irish cause FakeNoose Aug 2019 #6
They would rather see the Union disintegrate then give up! Soph0571 Aug 2019 #9
Is there any chance for a united Ireland remaining in the EU? Jokerman Aug 2019 #7
If there is a border poll and the majority vote for unification then it will happen Soph0571 Aug 2019 #8
Please keep posting on this issue jmbar2 Aug 2019 #10
Soph, you've made the stakes very real Mersky Aug 2019 #11
I saw the scars of the violence when I visited.... Historic NY Aug 2019 #12
Thanks for your insight. GeorgeGist Aug 2019 #13
Thank you for this excellent and very personal post. greatauntoftriplets Aug 2019 #14
Recommended. H2O Man Aug 2019 #15
I dated a gal in the early 80's from Ireland... Javaman Aug 2019 #16
You expressed this so beautifully - poetically, even. calimary Aug 2019 #17
This: Soph0571 Aug 2019 #19
"...Quiet as a serpent..." calimary Aug 2019 #20
I cannot recommend his poetry enough Soph0571 Aug 2019 #22
Superb! calimary Aug 2019 #30
I recently watched "Mother's Day," a heartbreaking (but ultimately very uplifting) movie deurbano Aug 2019 #18
Thank you for your heartfelt testimony, Soph Hekate Aug 2019 #21
Thank you so much Soph for sharing such an important piece of yourself. alwaysinasnit Aug 2019 #23
I was speaking to some friend who live in Ireland Richard D Aug 2019 #24
on the plus side keroro gunsou Aug 2019 #25
It could get really ugly really fast jrandom421 Aug 2019 #26
In a future where Boris gets his way lapfog_1 Aug 2019 #27
I'll just put this here, cause I don't have much to add but wanted to say something ... mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #28
Stockholm 88 Soph0571 Aug 2019 #29
Thanks for reminding us that hate gets us nowhere. Karadeniz Aug 2019 #31
I was in Donegal over 25 years ago this month mitch96 Aug 2019 #32
KR NT ProudProgressiveNow Aug 2019 #33
Thank you for sharing this underpants Aug 2019 #34
Wow!!!!! Thank you gopiscrap Aug 2019 #35
What's a "bandit border"? bucolic_frolic Aug 2019 #36
That and more Soph0571 Aug 2019 #37
Thanks, that shows why you chose the broad term bucolic_frolic Aug 2019 #38
The Brits and the DUP moniss Aug 2019 #39
As someone with one Scottish parent and one Welsh parent, Haggis for Breakfast Aug 2019 #40
I wish the best of outcomes moniss Sep 2019 #42
No-deal Brexit 'could motivate extremists in Northern Ireland' Myrddin Aug 2019 #41
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