Rotherham child abuse scandal: 1,400 children exploited, report finds

[ChazII]

13. The Shia Chat site

http://www.shiachat.com/forum/topic/235024964-child-abuse-in-the-uk/

had an interesting discussion on this topic.

Absolutely, in fact its worse when the girl is virgin; because the haya' (modesty/shyness) is naturally more abundant in a virgin girl than every male out there (a superior quality of females spoken of in hadiths!); losing virginity via rape will take away some of that haya', and the girl is inevitably seen as less marriage material. I'll say it again, in none of this is there any sin laid on the doorstep of the victim, most people operating within this honor-shame paradigm recognise this. Its just feelings of humiliation and embarrassment that override their disgust towards the rapist.

Comments 8 through 25 are informative.