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grantcart

(53,061 posts)
21. Civil disagreements are fine, vigorous arguments are fine, drawn out all out fights are fine,
Thu Dec 8, 2011, 02:28 AM
Dec 2011

That is what GD/GDP/SoapBox are for.

It is also fine for people who have a wide and deep commonly held conviction to have a place where they can hang out with others of similar point of view, for whatever reason they want, including enjoying the community that that particular experience brings.

That is true for the Gun folks, GLBT forum and those that are proud supporters of the President.

Frankly I spend several hours a day combating all kinds of idiots, including colleagues who can't correctly identify the birthplace of the President and some who think that he is the Anti-Christ. I get involved in a lot of discussions with right wing people who hate the President intensely.

I don't think it is too much to ask to have a place to come to where you can simply hang out with people of similar point of view without having to worry about getting dragged into another contentious discussion.

I also believe that other communities at DU who feel the same way should have the same opportunity. I find the GLBT to be one of the most interesting forums because of the support and interaction that exists there. I don't post there but I do read a lot of their posts.

My understanding of DU3 is that Skinner et al are trying to design a place where two different types of forums, open and aggressive discussion forums and supportive community forums can not only exist but build on each other.

Final note. It is clear from your posts that you wanted to change the definition of the BOG. You have run to GDP and are running a poll and generating outrage about your removal as a host.

I find that rather disingenous frankly. If you thought that the BOG needed to be radically transformed then why didn't you post that and try to build a consensus on that rather than volunteer as a host and change it by supterfuge. The issue was clear but you did not engage in an open debate on the central issue but rather tried to back door it.

This is why we a system that allows a group to grow organically and define itself will be a better solution than the old BOG.

If you thought that the old BOG was a 'fan' club then I have a difficult time understanding why you wanted to be a host here unless you thought that the old BOGGERS just needed someone to throw contentious issues in their face to wake up and become more serious human beings.

"endgendering hostility" Now why in the world would anything we say in the Barack Obama group engender hostility in other people?

Why would people who don't want to join this community give a damn what we think, unless they are already filled with hostility and simply want to find an accessible target to unload on? This does illustrate quite clearly why strong supporters of the President really do want to have a place where they can have discussions with like minded people without having to bear the burden of 'unleashing bottled up hostility'.

If you want to have a GDP separate from the Soap Box run a campaign and get it passed.

You can continue a public campaign against the BO(G) in DU2. We don't really give a damn.

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I like the way the old groups work. JTFrog Dec 2011 #1
Thank you. This is our safe haven. Says so right at the top. Nt DevonRex Dec 2011 #2
Hosts are here to address what juries cannot. Perhaps DevonRex Dec 2011 #3
Correct. ellisonz Dec 2011 #5
There is no one on this earth that agrees with the president on all issues Number23 Dec 2011 #6
So are we just going to ban anybody that posts something we don't like without warning? ellisonz Dec 2011 #8
As I said Number23 Dec 2011 #10
And as I've said ellisonz Dec 2011 #11
It was explained to you why folks stopped posting in the BOG Number23 Dec 2011 #13
I remember NanceGreggs, she was a smart woman and a great writer. ellisonz Dec 2011 #14
You obviously don't know the history here. DevonRex Dec 2011 #7
Well this is my opinion and it reflects a lot of time on DU. ellisonz Dec 2011 #9
I don't think an abstract list of rules is necessary grantcart Dec 2011 #4
And I've been removed as host for having a different opinion... ellisonz Dec 2011 #12
I am lost why you would think that the BOG and the GDP would be interchangeable, they serve entirely grantcart Dec 2011 #17
My reasoning ellisonz Dec 2011 #18
As it should be. JTFrog Dec 2011 #31
The BOG is a safe haven and should remain so... SidDithers Dec 2011 #15
Well then we're going to need GDP back. ellisonz Dec 2011 #16
Yes, if the BOG group isn't going to be a good replacement for GD-P then ... Tx4obama Dec 2011 #19
I've created a petition. ellisonz Dec 2011 #20
Civil disagreements are fine, vigorous arguments are fine, drawn out all out fights are fine, grantcart Dec 2011 #21
I felt the old BOG had become irrelevant. Also, we posted within 3 mins of eachother. ellisonz Dec 2011 #22
I stopped posting in BOG because a group of folks organized in an outside forum to harass BOGgers by grantcart Dec 2011 #27
No worries braddah. ellisonz Dec 2011 #28
I think that the confusion came from the fact ... Tx4obama Dec 2011 #23
Did people not know our mission statement before volunteering DevonRex Dec 2011 #24
Yes, I did read your mission statement when I first came to this group Tx4obama Dec 2011 #25
That is exactly what it means pipoman Dec 2011 #30
This forum is a safe haven. Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #32
A bit of a repeat below, but since this group is specifically called a safe haven Bolo Boffin Dec 2011 #35
Here's is what Skinner said ... Tx4obama Dec 2011 #26
Here is what EarlG said ... JTFrog Dec 2011 #36
Tx do you wish to host this group as the purpose is written? DevonRex Dec 2011 #38
After reading through the thread, I think that some people boston bean Dec 2011 #29
This isn't GDP. This is the BOG. The mission DevonRex Dec 2011 #37
I think most people who post on the BOG are sufrommich Dec 2011 #33
^^this. n/t JTFrog Dec 2011 #34
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