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DemonGoddess

(5,127 posts)
11. K&R!
Fri Feb 26, 2016, 07:52 AM
Feb 2016

Wonderful diary by Bravenak!

Now, as to systemic racism, it certainly exists. Let me just say that the behavior is a LEARNED behavior. My dad, while quite liberal on many things, was a bigot (this was in the 60's primarily). He did eventually evolve from that, but it took him a long time. On the other hand, my mother has always believed that it is the inner qualities of a PERSON that matters, not the color of his or her skin.

As a youngster, because I idolized my dad, I would parrot the racist bs. When I started to grow up, I evolved from that. It made no sense to me to be 1/4 Filipino, and make statements about PoC. After thinking about that quite a bit, I asked my dad (by this time I was in my 30's) if he, perhaps, reacted the way he did for so many years because he was trying to deflect the racist bs away from himself, being half Filipino, and never ever passing for white. In the end, he did agree there was that element. As I said, he evolved in his thinking on racism, race baiting, all of it. I do believe my mother was a huge influence on him with this. I can remember hearing some very heated arguments when I was young, about it. Up to and including my mother pointing out that he wasn't exactly white himself.

The upshot of all this is, is that people can, will, and DO evolve from what I see as exclusive type thinking, to inclusive thinking. I don't see that evolution in Sen. Sanders' replies.

I'm still picking up my jaw from that comment, by the way. About being better on race than Pres. Obama. My jaw may never find its way back to me..

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thank you for posting this rbrnmw Feb 2016 #1
Darn glad bravenak is still around. nt Chichiri Feb 2016 #2
I posted this in the AfAm group too rbrnmw Feb 2016 #3
Oh, heavens. Treant Feb 2016 #4
K & R SunSeeker Feb 2016 #5
Thank you for posting bravenak's diary @kos in Hill's Group, MrWendel! Cha Feb 2016 #6
Excellent! brer cat Feb 2016 #7
DU's loss is Kos's gain, I guess. MADem Feb 2016 #8
So they did... MrWendel Feb 2016 #9
What do you mean MrWendel? Cha Feb 2016 #10
K&R! DemonGoddess Feb 2016 #11
I'll bet this post will be targeted too. NurseJackie Feb 2016 #12
the comments at dkos DemonGoddess Feb 2016 #13
It was. I'm on the jury, which has been out more than 30 minutes. yardwork Feb 2016 #21
They are cowards 72DejaVu Feb 2016 #14
Speak of the devil ... I just served on the jury. NurseJackie Feb 2016 #15
Oh no.. fingers crossed. Cha Feb 2016 #16
I'll PM you with the results if this thread is hidden. NurseJackie Feb 2016 #18
Okay, Thank you, Jackie~ Cha Feb 2016 #22
I know... their own worst enemies Cha Feb 2016 #17
I was just called to a jury on this and the jury is still out. yardwork Feb 2016 #19
Nurse Jackie is on the jury, too. They're not telling the truth in the alert as usual. Cha Feb 2016 #23
I have to log off DU because otherwise I'll go off. yardwork Feb 2016 #26
You guys won this jury.. thank you! Cha Feb 2016 #29
MannyG was PPR'd? Tarheel_Dem Feb 2016 #37
Uh-huh. yardwork Feb 2016 #48
I need to check my IGGY list from time to time. That's shocking to me. n/t Tarheel_Dem Feb 2016 #49
Freed up a space on my jury blacklist. yardwork Feb 2016 #51
K & R, great article Thinkingabout Feb 2016 #20
JURY RESULTS (I'm surprised, actually.) NurseJackie Feb 2016 #24
I was #4. I'm furious at this alert stalking. yardwork Feb 2016 #25
Wow-Yay!!! You guys did Great! Mahalo!! The alerter flat out lied.. Cha Feb 2016 #27
As a personal "rule," in the past, I've always refrained from posting jury results ... NurseJackie Feb 2016 #30
What a great post, Jackie.. Thank you~Very inspiring. Cha Feb 2016 #31
Some really good juror comments! mcar Feb 2016 #32
K&R Starry Messenger Feb 2016 #28
K&R mcar Feb 2016 #33
Here's the context for his remark noamnety Feb 2016 #34
This is Hillary's Group. Cha Feb 2016 #36
Interesting read. Iliyah Feb 2016 #35
Excellent OP... Spazito Feb 2016 #38
Thank you for that, Spazito! Cha Feb 2016 #39
I'm not surprised it was hidden in GDP... Spazito Feb 2016 #40
Plus they lied that it was "reposted".. they were cross posted. Big Difference. Cha Feb 2016 #41
A very big difference! n/p Spazito Feb 2016 #42
They will never silence her, Cha. UtahLib Feb 2016 #43
Yep.. reminds me of Hillary! Cha Feb 2016 #44
Alert on the jury results and let the admins know that the alerter LIED to the jury to shoot for a MADem Feb 2016 #46
I agree.. that's right. It was yardwork and Nurse Jackie who were on the jury. Cha Feb 2016 #47
I'll be glad to do this but nothing will come of it. yardwork Feb 2016 #50
I know what you mean, yardwork. Cha Feb 2016 #54
K&R ismnotwasm Feb 2016 #45
DU rec for all kinds of reasons...nt SidDithers Feb 2016 #52
K&R! NastyRiffraff Feb 2016 #53
Trying to have an intelligent Loki Feb 2016 #55
K&R! sheshe2 Feb 2016 #56
KICK AGAIN@@@!!!!! Cha Feb 2016 #57
I am tired. sheshe2 Feb 2016 #58
So tomorrow is a good day for you in the dropping off a hide dept.. and a good day Cha Feb 2016 #59
Well sad to say few will be here. sheshe2 Feb 2016 #60
yeah, they have us walking on eggshells because WE want be able to post for Hillary and Cha Feb 2016 #61
As I said I will be down to 3 tomorrow. It should have been 1. sheshe2 Feb 2016 #62
It better be temporary.. If not then we know where Cha Feb 2016 #64
All of you can talk here and I can't. sheshe2 Feb 2016 #65
K&R Jamaal510 Feb 2016 #63
KICK BACK UP! Cha Feb 2016 #66
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