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zixiofix

(40 posts)
17. yes, we still have a long way to go . . .
Sat Apr 9, 2016, 05:06 PM
Apr 2016

well I guess that was the whole scandal with Steinem claiming that some of these women were just Bernie supporters to find men. Kinda like the equivalent of women who went to the university in the old days to find a husband. Steinem's claim was sexist, but nonetheless true. There will always be a certain class of men who praise women for being like men (watching football for example) or caring about what men care about (Sanders or substitute "policy over gender&quot when doing so either implicitly traumatizes the woman or the group they belong to. Women are kept out of football and relegated to the sidelines as cheerleaders, but many women take pride in loving a sport that bars them from participating. And likewise there is always a woman that internalizes their oppression to such a degree that they no longer realize they are actually harming a group through the personal choices they make, not just themselves. When women do not vote monolithically, our entire group suffers.

In African American culture, there is a word for a "house n*gro" who collaborates with the master. They are always referred to as an Uncle Tom. An Uncle Tom is someone whose individual choices work to make dominance and hegemony of the master more palatable to the oppressed. And they are always, always seen for what they are and always called out for their treachery by the whole community.

When a woman act's like an Uncle Tom, we're not allowed to call her out for it and instead we're upbraided for denying another woman her right to "choose." Or for denying that there are multiple "feminisms", not just feminism.

It is . . .to use a word, completely and utterly absurd.

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I was thinking of literally voting with mine. nt OhZone Apr 2016 #1
you would! lol. eom artyteacher Apr 2016 #6
Absentee or in person dlwickham Apr 2016 #8
I don't have a vajayjay, but... SaschaHM Apr 2016 #2
I also lack the V Treant Apr 2016 #3
no worries about the lack of V zixiofix Apr 2016 #5
thank you for the thoughtful reply zixiofix Apr 2016 #4
Excellent post ismnotwasm Apr 2016 #7
right?! sarae Apr 2016 #13
yes there is a lack of feminism or feminism is being co-opted by anti-feminists zixiofix Apr 2016 #15
Is there a... sarae Apr 2016 #16
I think you're onto something ;) zixiofix Apr 2016 #19
100% Agree sarae Apr 2016 #11
yes, we still have a long way to go . . . zixiofix Apr 2016 #17
Arrrgghhhh sarae Apr 2016 #20
It validates their male counterparts. LisaM Apr 2016 #21
Thank you for THAT very thoughtful reply! Kath1 Apr 2016 #22
K&R! DemonGoddess Apr 2016 #9
Thanks for the K& R zixiofix Apr 2016 #10
LOL DemonGoddess Apr 2016 #12
Especially a woman candidate who has always made women issues important Her Sister Apr 2016 #14
absolutely, and why women and children? zixiofix Apr 2016 #18
I'll be voting with my mind. Kath1 Apr 2016 #23
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