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10. "Well, guess what? It isn't up to her! It's YOUR MONEY! "
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 12:06 AM
Jul 2020

Yup, that's the biggest problem I've had with financial advisors under various names -- they kind of think it's their money, not mine. That has really annoyed me over the years.

I quit doing financial advisors and brokers decades ago because of that. Well, I had an account with Smith Barney until 2000 and yup, he seemed to think it was his money, not mine.

Tired of that. I do think that estate planning and taxes requires a professional. But I don't need or want someone to tell me what my equity allocations percentage should be, let alone giving me investment advice which I don't trust to be in my best interest (as opposed to his/her -- the Schwab disclosures are scary about their associates' compensation, though I love that Schwab is very very transparent about this -- unlike the others that I deal with (Vanguard, Fidelity) that one has to do a due-diligence deep dive to find out the same information -- but basically they get compensated a lot more for some investments more than others).

That said, I would emphasize that if someone is inheriting an IRA or 401k, they need to do it "right" like I explained in earlier postings in this thread. I've been lucky -- I had a good tax guy for decades who steered me toward Roth conversions and helped me in innumerable other ways with the complexities of all of this. Anyway, I don't think anyone recommending this stock or that allocation percentage is worth shit, but someone who knows what to keep out of trouble with the IRS is priceless.

Introduction [View all] hermetic Jul 2020 OP
My suggestion is that you want save what you have, limit your risk of loss. empedocles Jul 2020 #1
Sorry about the interruption, 4 yr old granddaughter had to go to the empedocles Jul 2020 #7
How nice hermetic Jul 2020 #14
I would suggest you ask her to sell enough so that you can pay for a couple of hours worth BComplex Jul 2020 #2
Thanks for your advice hermetic Jul 2020 #15
I worry if you inherited any IRAs or 401ks. progree Jul 2020 #3
Right on the nail head there. hermetic Jul 2020 #16
Don't put it in the stock market, good chance he's going to crash it before this is over. Canoe52 Jul 2020 #4
I don't think she has legal standing to tell you not to talk to anyone else about your account. Merlot Jul 2020 #5
Yep hermetic Jul 2020 #17
I have found financial people are more than happy to answer questions Merlot Jul 2020 #25
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. bottomofthehill Jul 2020 #6
Thanks hermetic Jul 2020 #13
Edward Jones is a pretty good company csziggy Jul 2020 #8
Thank you hermetic Jul 2020 #18
Yeah, when I was first looking at brokers I looked at online ones csziggy Jul 2020 #20
A few things you may want to consider; A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #9
"Well, guess what? It isn't up to her! It's YOUR MONEY! " progree Jul 2020 #10
As Host of this group, I would hope the participants here would refrain from giving specific investm progree Jul 2020 #11
I agree..... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #12
I've never understood having many different investment accounts csziggy Jul 2020 #21
When I was a broker, the situation you described were dreaded. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #22
The "Don't keep all your eggs in one basket" idea is fine for FDIC accounts these days csziggy Jul 2020 #24
THANK YOU! hermetic Jul 2020 #19
You are very welcome. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #23
No prop taxes? paradise! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #26
Idaho hermetic Jul 2020 #27
Thanks! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #28
I just finished reading this thread, and I want to say PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #29
WOW! Thanks! And very well said! A HERETIC I AM Sep 2020 #31
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