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PoindexterOglethorpe

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29. I just finished reading this thread, and I want to say
Mon Aug 24, 2020, 01:46 AM
Aug 2020

that I'm especially grateful for the many good and wise things A HERETIC I AM has posted. The only thing I want to add is, don't be in too much or a hurry to change anything. Well, change your broker since you clearly don't trust her, but as for selling stuff and buying stuff, take it slow. Especially for someone with no experience in investments, and as you've said you don't trust the stock market, you are now going to need to learn some stuff about it. Don't be afraid. It's really not that mysterious and there is a lot of information out there.

Oh, and I sincerely hope this windfall is a genuine boon to you.

I will simply say a bit about my personal circumstances, in case anything seems relevant to you. Recently, as in a couple of years ago, I needed to re-do my will and trust work because of certain changes in things that do not need to be addressed here. Luckily, I'd done trust work and wills a couple of times earlier, so I understood the whole process and knew exactly what I wanted in those documents. And here's the thing I want to emphasize: My only son is more or less my only heir (a few bequests to charities and a friend, fifty percent of one life insurance policy goes to my sister) and honestly, he'll be quite well off some day. Once I got all the paperwork in place, I both emailed and snail mailed him copies of everything, including a print out of my investment accounts. I figure the more he knows, the better off he is. The stories told in this thread of people keeping all of their accounts secret and spread around, make me a bit crazy. Clearly the entire world doesn't need to know everything, but those who will inherit really do.

So, my advice to hermetic and anyone else reading this is: Make a will. Do trust work if that's appropriate. And make sure that relevant people know what they need to know. My son has full disclosure from me. My sister only knows about her share of the life insurance. Both of those are appropriate. Your circumstances will be different.

And again, I hope this inheritance is a boon and improves your life.

Introduction [View all] hermetic Jul 2020 OP
My suggestion is that you want save what you have, limit your risk of loss. empedocles Jul 2020 #1
Sorry about the interruption, 4 yr old granddaughter had to go to the empedocles Jul 2020 #7
How nice hermetic Jul 2020 #14
I would suggest you ask her to sell enough so that you can pay for a couple of hours worth BComplex Jul 2020 #2
Thanks for your advice hermetic Jul 2020 #15
I worry if you inherited any IRAs or 401ks. progree Jul 2020 #3
Right on the nail head there. hermetic Jul 2020 #16
Don't put it in the stock market, good chance he's going to crash it before this is over. Canoe52 Jul 2020 #4
I don't think she has legal standing to tell you not to talk to anyone else about your account. Merlot Jul 2020 #5
Yep hermetic Jul 2020 #17
I have found financial people are more than happy to answer questions Merlot Jul 2020 #25
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. bottomofthehill Jul 2020 #6
Thanks hermetic Jul 2020 #13
Edward Jones is a pretty good company csziggy Jul 2020 #8
Thank you hermetic Jul 2020 #18
Yeah, when I was first looking at brokers I looked at online ones csziggy Jul 2020 #20
A few things you may want to consider; A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #9
"Well, guess what? It isn't up to her! It's YOUR MONEY! " progree Jul 2020 #10
As Host of this group, I would hope the participants here would refrain from giving specific investm progree Jul 2020 #11
I agree..... A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #12
I've never understood having many different investment accounts csziggy Jul 2020 #21
When I was a broker, the situation you described were dreaded. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #22
The "Don't keep all your eggs in one basket" idea is fine for FDIC accounts these days csziggy Jul 2020 #24
THANK YOU! hermetic Jul 2020 #19
You are very welcome. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2020 #23
No prop taxes? paradise! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #26
Idaho hermetic Jul 2020 #27
Thanks! bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #28
I just finished reading this thread, and I want to say PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #29
WOW! Thanks! And very well said! A HERETIC I AM Sep 2020 #31
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