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In reply to the discussion: "Gays can't be trusted with children" [View all]Veruca Salt
(921 posts)That said, I was a self hating gay woman and, while I shudder to recall how brainwashed, a self-identified 'fiscal' puke at one point in my life. I can personally understand how someone can make an about face as I was basically raised to hate myself.
For every idiotic and inflammatory thing I have ever said if I could do it again differently I would in a heartbeat and if someone found a statement of mine like that then I sure as hell would own up to it and apologise. I can understand wanting something that vile swept under the rug but if a person wanted that part of their life to vanish they would have made it impossible to trace back. So own up and apologise, lay all cards on the table and I'd accept and if they didn't I'd have to assume they still felt that way.