William's thread got me thinking...who are the most important people in your Gay life? [View all]
Like William my Mom is #1. She knew before I came out that I was gay (the "Kiss Me I'm Gay" button I picked up at PrideFest in Chicago MAY have had something to do with it). She never judged me. She never rushed me to tell her. She waited patiently for when I felt comfortable enough and secure enough to come out.
Also Kenny, my best friend. We've known each other since we were 5. He was the first person I ever came out to. I was so freaking nervous. I had no idea what his reaction would be. I didn't know if he'd reject me. When I finally worked up the courage to tell him his words are something I don't know I can ever forget...."So? What about it?" 43 years later it's still a non-issue for him and he remains my best friend.
Paul. What can I say about Paul? He's the most important person in my life after Mom. When I was growing up I was so confused. I was so hurt and angry all the time. I never thought I'd find love. I never thought anyone would be capable of giving it to me. Sex? Sure. Love? Heck no. Then came Paul. When he first uttered the phrase, "I love you" I was over the moon. Years of anguish melted away. I admit that I'm not sure HOW he can love me, but I won't ever take it for granted.
So those are the most important people in my life. What about you?
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