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ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 01:13 AM Dec 2011

(Viral on Facebook) Lessons from Sharing the Story of My (Possibly) Gay 6-Year old son [View all]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/Amelia/gay-children_b_954350.html

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I wrote an essay about my oldest son and his love of a popular gay television character, Glee's Blaine, and how this crush led to him telling me he wanted to kiss boys, not girls. I naively posted it to a blog, thinking some fans of the show might think it was cute.

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It also made some people uncomfortable. Of the criticisms, the most common is that my son is six years old and doesn't know anything about sex. While I fully acknowledge this may not be the end-all-and-be-all to my son's sexual orientation, I object to the idea that being gay is only about sexual acts. Our emotions and feelings, our attractions and compulsions, all contribute, not just our body parts. If my son had a crush on the star of iCarly, I doubt people would be saying he was too young to have those sexual feelings towards a girl. I think they would think it was an innocent schoolboy crush, which is exactly what it is.

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Plus, for every comment I've read saying my son is too young, I have received multiple messages from adults saying "I knew when I was little, too."


The horrible and hate filled words of the Michele Bachmann's of the world take on a whole new level of disgusting when picturing them being screamed at a group of kindergartners and first graders. They are unnatural. They are sinners. They are going to hell. They are dirty, wrong and sick.


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Excellent writing and worthy of a read.
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