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MillennialDem

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1. Not in a totally similar situation, young couple in WI. I just finished grad school a few years ago

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Fri Jun 28, 2013, 10:56 AM

Jun 2013

and I am a professor. My wife is in school to get a media arts and game design degree (she is 3 years younger than me, and no she is not a former student).

It's quite possible her future job will lead to California. I would move there with her if it did.

We bought a house and I'm not sure if we would sell or rent it or keep it as a summer/get away home.

At least the repeal of section 3 of DOMA will make filing federal tax returns jointly possible (as long as you take a trip to a state that allows SSM) and this will likely lead to court challenges out the ass against these awful state laws.

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Should I stay (in my anti-marriage state) or should I go? [View all] Not Me Jun 2013 OP

Not in a totally similar situation, young couple in WI. I just finished grad school a few years ago MillennialDem Jun 2013 #1

I believe that you can marry in a Blue state Buzz505 Jun 2013 #2

It's not that easy Not Me Jun 2013 #5

I'll see you and raise you. plantwomyn Jun 2013 #3

My husband is from NW Indiana Not Me Jun 2013 #4