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Ms. Toad

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15. Someone else will have to do that for me for the next 24 hours.
Fri Aug 23, 2013, 05:55 PM
Aug 2013

Someone bragged about still holding the same position, and feeling sorry for all those who voted to hide his post (which insisted that Chelsea Manning was a man) and doubled down - repeating that Manning is a man until surgically altered...

The jury voted to leave it 6-0 because he said it so respectfully - here are their comments:

"Legally Manning is a man. Manning may psychologically be a woman, but Manning until the process is begun is a man under the law. The alerter should figure that out."

"The poster explained his or her rationale in a civil manner. I think it he should honor Manning's request but there is no "rule" that forces this-not in custom nor in law; even the news is still calling Manning "Bradley" and "him." This is a tough concept to understand for people who haven't dealt with it. "Punishing" with a hide for "not getting it" is in a backhanded way intolerant, too. Not everyone comes to the table with the same degree of awareness. Teach, so he will learn, don't punish. If the poster has a history of LGBT hatred, the admins will see a pattern and take care of it."

"misinformed but not hate speech"


"I see a respectful post presenting a point of view--perhaps not universally held--but a point of view."


That same poster has now repeated it a half dozen more times (despite plenty of teaching, by me and others). So much for teaching and merely being misinformed...ugh.

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And it's going to get worse. William769 Aug 2013 #1
I think that was me. I meant no offense. I'm not clear at what point we kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #2
To answer your question - Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #7
Well my ambiguity and confusion is why I used S/HE rather than HE. kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #16
There is a difference Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #17
I'm fairly certain that Chelsea Manning's feelings weren't hurt by my single post using "s/he" to kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #19
It isn't just Chelsea Manning. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #21
I am reminded of the relentless bashing chervilant Aug 2013 #27
I saw that mockmonkey Aug 2013 #18
I am absolutly stunned by the comments I read just few minutes ago. idwiyo Aug 2013 #3
Meet the new DU. Same as the old DU. closeupready Aug 2013 #12
I can not beleive what I am seeing posted here. WTF? idwiyo Aug 2013 #13
I know. Bear in mind, though, some are disrupting deliberately. closeupready Aug 2013 #14
If they are really unhappy, they have the power to do something about it. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #23
And - the reply I expected from Skinner Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #25
Thank for the link. closeupready Aug 2013 #29
I managed to miss it yesterday, as well. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #31
Sad, but true. IngridsLittleAngel Aug 2013 #24
+ a gazillion chervilant Aug 2013 #28
I agree, and I've said before, closeupready Aug 2013 #30
Pretty much finished with this place after today. JackBeck Aug 2013 #4
Many of us do. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #8
Comparing her to Pat from "SNL"? What is this, 1990? How frickin' out of touch can a person be? nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #5
Yeah that one really pissed me off! Initech Aug 2013 #6
By the time I alerted, the jury had already ruled. n/t Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #9
I really wanted to tell that asshole off. But I got to the thread too late. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #11
He has been TS'd Marrah_G Aug 2013 #33
Good! nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #34
Just take deep breaths, alert and click tos Marrah_G Aug 2013 #10
Someone else will have to do that for me for the next 24 hours. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #15
That one is enlightenment Aug 2013 #22
Can you please PM me the username of that poster. idwiyo Aug 2013 #32
K&R NealK Aug 2013 #20
one thing the usa leads the world on is civil rights/equality for LGBT Sunlei Aug 2013 #26
We may not be at the bottom - nowhere near - but we're not "leaders" either. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #35
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