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IngridsLittleAngel

(1,962 posts)
24. Sad, but true.
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 08:39 AM
Aug 2013

I know, it sounds funny from someone with about a dozen posts, but I have probably been lurking and reading here as far back as 2005 or 2006. I've seen my share of what LGBT's have endured here over the years. It's a big part of why I've posted so little, and, I think have made all of one post outside of this group so far. Why would I post outside of this area? What reason do I have to feel safe out there?

I have time and time again been shocked and hurt over what I've seen here over the last three days. The posts I've seen time and time again are the kind of hateful, hurtful shit I expect to see in comments to Yahoo! articles, or CNN.com, or even Freeperville. I've lost count of how many times I've scrolled back up to the top of the page or checked the URL to make sure I was on the right site. "Yep. I guess this IS DU. Says so. Could've fooled me..."

But then, maybe I am the fool for being fooled. It's just the same ol' song and dance here at DU. When it's time to tap the GayTM or get us to GayOTV, well, let's mend fences. The rest of the time, it's FU for us LGBT's at DU.

I had to alert on a post this morning. First time I've ever alerted on a post here. Oh, sure, there have been many times in the past I'd wanted to. But this one was so appalling that I just felt there was no choice. I know, though, that I can expect it to wind up being kept, and at least one of the jurors personally attacking me. After all, it seems that how DU rolls anymore - especially when we try to stand up to the transhatred that has become all the rage here this week.

What has gone down here this week is exactly why it took me years to finally register an account, and then months after that to even post at all. Really. Why would I want to be here? Why would I want to be in a place where I probably have a bullseye on my ass in 99% of the forums/groups?

What I've seen this week has made me think back to something I said so many times in the last 12 or so years. It'd be election time. I'd have friends on both sides of the aisle (though, for obvious reasons, I now have far fewer Republican friends than I used to) nagging me. Vote for "their" guy. Vote for "their" party. And it would seem, more often than not, that both the D and the R were anti-LGBT equality. So, I would paraphrase the most famous player from the old XFL, Rod Smart. I'd tell them "Yeah. I look at the Republican, and I think 'He hate me.' And now, I'm looking at the Democrat, thinking 'He hate me too.'"

Well, good job on the part of the bigots on our "side" here at DU this week. Because for the last few days, I've found myself thinking about the typical Freeper. "He hate me". And now I look at the bigotry here over Chelsea Manning, think of the typical DU'er, and find myself thinking "Yeah. He hate me, too."

Meet the new DU. Same as the old DU. Indeed.

Though, I'm sure one day soon, Skinner will be back to "mend some more fences". Forget the fences. Maybe it's just time for him to start taking out the trash.

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And it's going to get worse. William769 Aug 2013 #1
I think that was me. I meant no offense. I'm not clear at what point we kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #2
To answer your question - Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #7
Well my ambiguity and confusion is why I used S/HE rather than HE. kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #16
There is a difference Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #17
I'm fairly certain that Chelsea Manning's feelings weren't hurt by my single post using "s/he" to kestrel91316 Aug 2013 #19
It isn't just Chelsea Manning. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #21
I am reminded of the relentless bashing chervilant Aug 2013 #27
I saw that mockmonkey Aug 2013 #18
I am absolutly stunned by the comments I read just few minutes ago. idwiyo Aug 2013 #3
Meet the new DU. Same as the old DU. closeupready Aug 2013 #12
I can not beleive what I am seeing posted here. WTF? idwiyo Aug 2013 #13
I know. Bear in mind, though, some are disrupting deliberately. closeupready Aug 2013 #14
If they are really unhappy, they have the power to do something about it. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #23
And - the reply I expected from Skinner Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #25
Thank for the link. closeupready Aug 2013 #29
I managed to miss it yesterday, as well. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #31
Sad, but true. IngridsLittleAngel Aug 2013 #24
+ a gazillion chervilant Aug 2013 #28
I agree, and I've said before, closeupready Aug 2013 #30
Pretty much finished with this place after today. JackBeck Aug 2013 #4
Many of us do. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #8
Comparing her to Pat from "SNL"? What is this, 1990? How frickin' out of touch can a person be? nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #5
Yeah that one really pissed me off! Initech Aug 2013 #6
By the time I alerted, the jury had already ruled. n/t Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #9
I really wanted to tell that asshole off. But I got to the thread too late. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #11
He has been TS'd Marrah_G Aug 2013 #33
Good! nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #34
Just take deep breaths, alert and click tos Marrah_G Aug 2013 #10
Someone else will have to do that for me for the next 24 hours. Ms. Toad Aug 2013 #15
That one is enlightenment Aug 2013 #22
Can you please PM me the username of that poster. idwiyo Aug 2013 #32
K&R NealK Aug 2013 #20
one thing the usa leads the world on is civil rights/equality for LGBT Sunlei Aug 2013 #26
We may not be at the bottom - nowhere near - but we're not "leaders" either. nomorenomore08 Aug 2013 #35
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