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In reply to the discussion: What's it Like to be Asexual? [View all]

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11. Asexuality is sort of like a volume on the Kinsey Scale
Mon Jan 23, 2012, 01:57 AM
Jan 2012

It doesn't determine who you prefer, it's how strong your urge for sex is. A popular logo intended to illustrate this point is a triangle with color (for sexual attraction) only showing in the lower portion, i.e. like the volume is turned down. It definitely adds a new axis to your idea of the Kinsey scale. But I'm sure it's not the only other possible axis people haven't discussed much yet.

I love asexuality because it shows, fundamentally, that homosexuality is not about sex. Asexuals are still gay, straight, bi, etc. Just without the sex. I know, wrap your head around it. And many romantic asexuals want the same life long, till death do us part, monogamous, relationships just like everyone else, but without the sex.

Asexual Visibility and Education Network
http://www.asexuality.org/en/

Enjoy!

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What's it Like to be Asexual? [View all] HillWilliam Jan 2012 OP
Report: Scientists have identified a drug that completely suppresses sexual urges in women.. Scuba Jan 2012 #1
Hee-hee! joeybee12 Jan 2012 #2
Got it all wrong... justiceischeap Jan 2012 #7
Also regarded as being dipsydoodle Jan 2012 #9
At my age being asexual would be a blessing! joeybee12 Jan 2012 #3
Good, concise distinction: Zenlitened Jan 2012 #4
I wouldn't call it an orientation FreeState Jan 2012 #5
i think it is more complicated La Lioness Priyanka Jan 2012 #6
Good comment, but I tend to think it's a continuum ... marginlized Jan 2012 #12
I'm Asexual. undergroundpanther Jan 2012 #8
Thanks for sharing! joeybee12 Jan 2012 #10
Asexuality is sort of like a volume on the Kinsey Scale marginlized Jan 2012 #11
I'm asexual too. ChaoticTrilby Oct 2012 #13
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