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QueerDuck

(2,078 posts)
4. Just a guess: Those who recognize the same feelings in themselves but choose to deny it and...
Thu Jun 18, 2026, 04:54 PM
Yesterday

...try to prove it to others (and themselves) by demonizing and attacking others who represent and who have what they wish they were strong enough to have for themselves? Or something.

The obsession with policing consenting adults is usually just a noisy, desperate attempt to drown out the voice in their own head. They are not fighting a culture war; they are fighting a losing battle against their own denial.

It is honestly impressive how much effort they put into 'saving' everyone else from a lifestyle they seem to spend an awful lot of time thinking about. You really have to wonder: why is their own sex life so boring that they have to live vicariously through ours?

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11 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Now do trans kids' books! TommyT139 Yesterday #1
Absolutely brilliant kxs Yesterday #8
Recommend! sheshe2 Yesterday #2
Who cares what other consenting adults do? multigraincracker Yesterday #3
Just a guess: Those who recognize the same feelings in themselves but choose to deny it and... QueerDuck Yesterday #4
Yup dave99 Yesterday #5
Bingo. multigraincracker Yesterday #9
That's definitely true for some people. ShazzieB Yesterday #14
And they have funded "studies" to justify that theory. TommyT139 Yesterday #15
Only the Bedroom Busybodies. calimary Yesterday #10
"Bedroom Busybodies." 3catwoman3 8 hrs ago #20
Unfortunately.... OhioBack2Blue 8 hrs ago #21
I honestly don't care what consenting adults do Skittles Yesterday #12
I've had the same response to those types of people for some time now. chowmama Yesterday #16
I just hope to God GAJMac Yesterday #6
But we've seen this trump effect on adults who Ilsa 13 hrs ago #17
Already happening. Callie1979 9 hrs ago #18
Kick. N/T Upthevibe Yesterday #7
One more thing: If you don't like gays, blame the straight people. They're the ones making them. OMGWTF Yesterday #11
Hahahahahahahahahaha!!!! Callie1979 9 hrs ago #19
I will do you one better... OhioBack2Blue 8 hrs ago #22
ding. this AllaN01Bear Yesterday #13
what if you catch 2 men in bed together. dawn5651 8 hrs ago #23
Personally? My first thought is... "watch quietly and hope they don't notice" 🤣😂 QueerDuck 7 hrs ago #24
no thank...but to add context..it was my sister. she and my cousin dawn5651 7 hrs ago #25
Obviously, the answer to that is to see two women in bed together. 2MuchNoise 5 hrs ago #26
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