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Response to janterry (Original post)

Tue Apr 27, 2021, 08:38 AM

19. Indeed, "Why do the ladies stay?"

No broken bones, no bruises, Just a pattern of covered overdrafts, her unrepaired vehicle or the use of hers when his goes unrepaired because, he works...and she's lucky (to stay home) so supported on his income, however small by choice or unemployment, marital identity theft; marital "chore theft," ever so busy, busy, busy emotionally, psychologically/emotionally" providing what wasn't asked for because what the the public thinks his lady needs/wants is just great, a public substitute without regard for what she has requested in private over and over and over, imprisoning her privately in a pumpkin shell of solitary confinement meant only for his own "companionship" only as he sees it inside those doors though he's so lonely???...as it were...after all...HE LOVES HER!...gradually, would such a total "disrespect" and "control" turn violent eventually as SHE becomes more frustrated? Rejected for assistance by relatives, friends, social safety-nets, counselors because their guy acts so upright and helpful? Asking for a friend who has it soooooo good as part of a couple but who also knows what she needs as a woman but in a culture where there's so much more misogyny and actual "violence" awaiting on the outside of that sham shell of safety!

Peter, Peter Pumpkin Eater;
Had a wife and would not keep her;
Put her in a pumpkin shell;
And there he kept her very well (but not).

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