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CTyankee

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10. well, "self realization" is an excellent motivator...I know, been there...

Reply to cbayer (Reply #9)

Sun Jul 6, 2014, 09:07 AM

Jul 2014

once the decision is made crystal clear it dissolves all of our arguments to the contrary. This happened to me in at least two other major decisions of my life: end my failed, unhappy marriage once and for all, and, later, strong professional reason go back to school to finish a degree.

In both instances I had either a kick in the pants (what happened to my friend) or a colleague (not a close friend) who said to me "How long are you going to put up with this?" (regarding my dead-end marriage). In both instances, my close friends wouldn't tell me because they didn't want to upset me. You need a more objective voice.

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I don't know. I am away with my daughter and her family...this is all second hand news to me... CTyankee Jul 2014 #3

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I just recently quit smoking after getting some bad health news cbayer Jul 2014 #5

thanks, cbayer! He is doing well without the cigs and booze. He is feeling much better. CTyankee Jul 2014 #6

Not wanting to be a smoker anymore is basically the gist cbayer Jul 2014 #7

Great! CTyankee Jul 2014 #8

Again, that is one of this author's main points. cbayer Jul 2014 #9

well, "self realization" is an excellent motivator...I know, been there... CTyankee Jul 2014 #10

I know exactly what you are saying. cbayer Jul 2014 #11

Yes, I had those events myself. CTyankee Jul 2014 #12

I also found lots of happiness after making those hard decisions. cbayer Jul 2014 #13

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Those look amazing. Any off the beaten path ideas you can offer would be cbayer Jul 2014 #15

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This is great! We are going to try and scare up a printer tomorrow cbayer Jul 2014 #17

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You are welcome...such good stuff! CTyankee Jul 2014 #20