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SonofDonald

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Mon Apr 24, 2023, 12:12 PM Apr 2023

I've been diagnosed with stage four terminal cancer [View all]

On March 31’st my dog tripped me out in the driveway, my back started hurting but I’ve had ablation done on my lower back twice already and thought it was wearing off again

I started going into urgent cares and the pain got worse, they shot me up with four shots of morphine and four of Dilaudid and some toradol with no success

I was told by the doctors that with all that I should be dead, I didn’t lose an eyelash much less any other problems

A legal pain clinic had taken over my pain from a shattered right leg, a replaced left knee and the afor mentioned spinal pain nerve ablation in 2009, I was under their pain management until 2018 when I decided to get off the 180 mgs of Morphine PER DAY for 9 years solid

It seems my body has built up a resistance to opiates, my painkillers today are at: 90 mgs a day of oral extended release of morphine in a pill form

6 mg of oral Dilaudid every 3 hours, i injection of Dilaudid every 2 hours

And I’m still in pain, the cancer had eaten into my L-4 vertebra and had fractured it

The day I was admitted into the hospital I could walk with two canes, I can no longer get up or sit upright due to the pain

The cancer is in my liver, kidneys?, spine, shoulders, lungs etc, not sure where else yet

I’ve had scans and radiation treatments every day of the week now and it’s agony to lay on a table when your back is screaming the entire time, every time I leave my room it’s pain city at at least 7 on the ten scale

I sure hope the fentanyl patches work

They say without medical help I will last three more months, but I have ten more days of radiation treatment and that drops the pain level down I think

When I can go home in ten days ( cross my fingers) i will then start chemotherapy and go on from there, I may last until the end of the year

Peace to all, live, laugh and love ❤️

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Sending you all the best vibes! MLAA Apr 2023 #1
OMG I'm so sorry ... that is terrible, terrible news ... Hugh_Lebowski Apr 2023 #2
Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Apr 2023 #3
Best of luck to you, my DUer friend. OAITW r.2.0 Apr 2023 #4
Sending you good vibes and virtual hugs. brer cat Apr 2023 #5
You will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2023 #6
What can be said in the face of such news? I wish you the best. Scrivener7 Apr 2023 #7
I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Apr 2023 #8
... alwaysinasnit Apr 2023 #9
Your fight is heroic bucolic_frolic Apr 2023 #10
My tolerance for pain is high SonofDonald Apr 2023 #28
Devastating to hear about your relentless moonscape Apr 2023 #11
I am so sorry you're dealing with this! Sending vibes and ms liberty Apr 2023 #12
I'm Faux pas Apr 2023 #13
They say I'm terminal but.... SonofDonald Apr 2023 #14
Your attitude in fighting these challenges inspired me grantcart Apr 2023 #30
A strong positive attitude has healing abilities KS Toronado Apr 2023 #35
I'm both saddened and inspired by you. You are very brave. Pepsidog Apr 2023 #36
Do whatever you can, and do it for yourself. marble falls Apr 2023 #91
Good care and a great attitude is so helpful. Wishing you continued strength and spirit all the way JudyM Apr 2023 #97
When I get out I will try the Rick Simpson oil SonofDonald Apr 2023 #114
If cannabis is legal in your state you should be able to get it at a dispensary. JudyM Apr 2023 #115
It's legal here in Washington state SonofDonald Apr 2023 #116
Aw, so special and sweet! JudyM Apr 2023 #117
Hey great attitude! We're on Vashon Goddessartist Apr 2023 #108
My son also has terminal cancer Lifeafter70 Apr 2023 #113
Your attitude is truly inspiring to me!! Sparkly Jul 2023 #125
My heart babylonsister Apr 2023 #15
Sending peaceful vibes your way Lifeafter70 Apr 2023 #16
This is terrible. May all the forces of The Universe surround you and send healing and peace. LoisB Apr 2023 #17
... markie Apr 2023 #18
Sending you every good vibe Alliepoo Apr 2023 #19
I'm so terribly sorry. Keep the faith. sinkingfeeling Apr 2023 #20
I'm sorry. LisaM Apr 2023 #21
Sending you my very best DU vibes Wicked Blue Apr 2023 #22
I am so very sorry. CousinIT Apr 2023 #23
I've already told all family members SonofDonald Apr 2023 #60
It's way too much grief for one family. I'm so sorry. CousinIT Apr 2023 #65
Long may you run, SoD. May you go home, feel less pain, feel all the love your heart can hold. ancianita Apr 2023 #24
Sending you love, hugs and prayers. gademocrat7 Apr 2023 #25
this breaks my heart KT2000 Apr 2023 #26
May you and yours find comfort and peace Botany Apr 2023 #27
So sorry to hear about your struggles, SonofDonald! pazzyanne Apr 2023 #29
frankly cancer should be drug out in to the middle of the dam street and filled full of bullets dawn5651 Apr 2023 #31
Holding you in my heart for strength and peace. You are not alone, you are dear to DU. n/t TygrBright Apr 2023 #32
.... progressoid Apr 2023 #33
I'm so, so sorry. StarryNite Apr 2023 #34
Bummer. Strength and honor. WheelWalker Apr 2023 #37
I'd encourage you to keep two lines of thinking open, if you can. Ms. Toad Apr 2023 #38
Wishing you peace ...may you beat all the odds with treatment PortTack Apr 2023 #39
Vibes sent to you and your lived ones. applegrove Apr 2023 #40
So very sorry... rogerballard Apr 2023 #41
I am praying that every day you have is FULL of blessings and zero pain! Keep it up! Life's worth it keopeli Apr 2023 #42
So sorry to hear this news.. Desert grandma Apr 2023 #43
Sent up a prayer for healing vibes for you. iluvtennis Apr 2023 #44
So sorry and send you hugs riverbendviewgal Apr 2023 #45
I am so sorry you are suffering. pandr32 Apr 2023 #46
So very sorry. Cancer sucks so bad. SleeplessinSoCal Apr 2023 #47
I'm so sorry for all you're going through. Jay25 Apr 2023 #48
Do whatever they offer that gives you comfort and decreases pain. TNNurse Apr 2023 #49
Yes it is, Washington state is legal SonofDonald Apr 2023 #66
It does sound like a very tough diagnosis. TNNurse Apr 2023 #72
Sometimes it's hard to find the right words. democrank Apr 2023 #50
Continue to live, laugh, love and never quit housecat Apr 2023 #51
So sorry to hear this. You ave already been through a ton. Hope you get out in the 10 days. Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #52
Fuck cancer Lanius Apr 2023 #53
May peace attend your days, always Hekate Apr 2023 #54
Amazing Fortitude and Endurance FrankTC Apr 2023 #55
I'm so sorry barbtries Apr 2023 #56
Oh no, I feel awful for your pain and having to deal with this. It sounds like are facing everything TeamProg Apr 2023 #57
I'm sorry cate94 Apr 2023 #58
Very sorry to hear this. Abigail_Adams Apr 2023 #59
Nobody should have to endure this kind of pain. sellitman Apr 2023 #61
I'm grateful for your years of service in your life. KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2023 #62
Enjoy every day Wild blueberry Apr 2023 #63
Thank you for sharing. You're in my prayers and good vibrations duhneece Apr 2023 #64
Shit! I don't know your beliefs, but mine... and unless hundreds of NDE'ers are hoaxters... say Karadeniz Apr 2023 #67
I pray for your comfort. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Maraya1969 Apr 2023 #68
Oh no. I'm sorry you are so uncomfortable AllyCat Apr 2023 #69
I'm so sorry. area51 Apr 2023 #70
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Apr 2023 #71
I am so sorry you are in such pain. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through judesedit Apr 2023 #73
If you need someone to talk to or to laugh with send me a message. BlueLucy Apr 2023 #74
Love and warm healing vibes to you! colorado_ufo Apr 2023 #75
(((((((((HUGS))))))))) UpInArms Apr 2023 #76
So sorry to hear about your pain. TdeV Apr 2023 #77
Hugs. Sending peaceful healing vibes. onecaliberal Apr 2023 #78
Sending love and peaceful vibes. sheshe2 Apr 2023 #79
As the days move forward, I hope you are filled peace and love. Fla Dem Apr 2023 #80
I'm very sorry that you're going through this. yardwork Apr 2023 #81
Sending all claudette Apr 2023 #82
I'm sorry that you're going through such a tough ordeal. Beacool Apr 2023 #83
Honoring and admiring your fortitude, will be holding you in the light! n/t KatK Apr 2023 #84
I hope that the pain gets managed asap!!!! and that Tumbulu Apr 2023 #85
Dying well, if that must be, is a part of living well. You seem to be very capable of that. Atticus Apr 2023 #86
When I start feeling sorry for myself I guess i'll just come here ratchiweenie Apr 2023 #87
I'm so sorry, Mark. highplainsdem Apr 2023 #88
Thank you so much, that does help SonofDonald Apr 2023 #95
{{{{{Mark}}}}} No, I can't imagine what you've been dealing with. Like others here, I'm in awe of highplainsdem Apr 2023 #110
Peace to you. Know that you are loved. cayugafalls Apr 2023 #89
Best Wishes Jazz Jon Apr 2023 #90
Wow! I'm sorry you are going through all this pain. Bluethroughu Apr 2023 #92
Sending healing for your shattered places wendyb-NC Apr 2023 #93
I'm very sorry to read of your pain and diagnosis. stollen Apr 2023 #94
Thank you for sharing your experiences with so much love and joy. mia Apr 2023 #96
Sending strong L🩵VE to you. There's no distance in the Spirit. sprinkleeninow Apr 2023 #98
I marvel at your calm in the face of this. DFW Apr 2023 #99
Good vibes vercetti2021 Apr 2023 #100
So very very sorry about this diva77 Apr 2023 #101
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Apr 2023 #102
sending you good vibes. Hope the pain lets up BlueWaveNeverEnd Apr 2023 #103
I wish there was something I could offer other than murielm99 Apr 2023 #104
You are in my thoughts. Scottie Mom Apr 2023 #105
As one in medicine it is horrible that I am helpless to bring some alternative to you. I can only hlthe2b Apr 2023 #106
Oh I am so sorry. Sending you love and light and wishes for the LiberalLoner Apr 2023 #107
Live, laugh, love and cry The Jungle 1 Apr 2023 #109
Peace, love and light to you. 58Sunliner Apr 2023 #111
You are in our thoughts... CaptainTruth Apr 2023 #112
Thank you for your post. Sparkly May 2023 #118
Thank you for the good wishes SonofDonald May 2023 #119
I am so sorry. CrispyQ May 2023 #120
I'm sorry cate94 May 2023 #121
Always remember that your DU family loves you! colorado_ufo Jun 2023 #122
I am so sorry for your disease and pain. barbaraann Jun 2023 #123
Oh I am so so sorry, especially for the pain that isn't managed well, and for the bad news. LiberalLoner Jun 2023 #124
I don't know if this would interest you but Sparkly Jul 2023 #126
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