Mental Health Support

ananda

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31. I so relate.

Reply to dingosatemyusername (Original post)

Fri Jul 2, 2021, 07:39 PM

Jul 2021

I used to like being alone a lot because that's just how I am.

But Covid changed that because I had no other options.
Even though my social life is returning, it's still different.

And the way our world has become so violent and polarized
doesn't help either.

However, it's better now than it was before vaccination.

Let's hold on to that.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 OP

This is a great supportive group XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #1

same here.... chillfactor Jul 2021 #2

Please dont. I am talking to the OP also. Eliot Rosewater Jul 2021 #4

Thank you for this XanaDUer2 Jul 2021 #20

... sheshe2 Jul 2021 #34

... Eliot Rosewater Jul 2021 #37

Have missed you. nt sheshe2 Jul 2021 #38

Thanks, absence from these boards keeps me sane, but I keep getting drawn back Eliot Rosewater Jul 2021 #40

I hear you. sheshe2 Jul 2021 #42

my (common law) wife died in Januaray 2019 dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 #3

I met my husband of 15 years on a dating site. They really work. patricia92243 Jul 2021 #18

What site? Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #22

Senior Meet - don/t know if it is still around. My daughter patricia92243 Jul 2021 #58

Now that Rebl2 Jul 2021 #43

Please don't hesitate to talk about it here, no one will think you're attention seeking. SaveOurDemocracy Jul 2021 #5

When I was living alone my daughter gave me a chihuahua. She made all the difference. rickyhall Jul 2021 #6

Good Point. Having a pet fills a lot of voids. Marie Marie Jul 2021 #8

I can barely care for myself let alone a pet dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 #10

We're all in it together, brother. StrictlyRockers Jul 2021 #19

I'm so sorry. Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #23

I miss having a cat dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 #26

I don't agree that cats should be free to come and go. Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #47

My kitty isn't declawed I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2021 #49

Talk away or post away whichever way you want to put it. blueinredohio Jul 2021 #7

Have you tried support groups like this? Ziggysmom Jul 2021 #9

Thank you so much. I just signed up. Oppaloopa Jul 2021 #35

Eleanor Rigby: 🎶All the Lonely People. Where do they all come from!🎶 LakeArenal Jul 2021 #11

I just heard The Small Faces at my local CVS, I smiled immediately. BigmanPigman Jul 2021 #39

Yes. Dogs are the best. No heaven without them. LakeArenal Jul 2021 #41

There are groups for "Adult Orphans' on FB and probably on the web too. Maraya1969 Jul 2021 #12

We should have a group on this site. Oppaloopa Jul 2021 #36

I think it would be nice if we had a zoom room also. I don't know whose willing Maraya1969 Jul 2021 #44

I would suggest a pet. They can pull one out of very deep pits. alittlelark Jul 2021 #13

This message was self-deleted by its author dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 #14

Pardon me for asking if it is too personal, Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #50

yes dingosatemyusername Jul 2021 #57

Live the way she would want for you to live... Harker Jul 2021 #15

Seems like the pet thing would be a good. They force one to pay attention to something else. Srkdqltr Jul 2021 #16

Get out of the house and do something. My "something" was a hiking club that has become my support. 3Hotdogs Jul 2021 #17

I dare say we've all had times.. Deuxcents Jul 2021 #21

I would give anything to have a friend, if you want one. I have MS and feel so terribly lonely so LiberalLoner Jul 2021 #24

As they say: Better alone, than in bad company peppertree Jul 2021 #25

Is there a senior center in your area? SheltieLover Jul 2021 #27

Oh my God a declawed rescue cat. Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #51

Right. SheltieLover Jul 2021 #56

boy howdy. i've about lost my mind. mopinko Jul 2021 #28

Have you looked into tele-psych doc &/or therapy? SheltieLover Jul 2021 #29

I've looked into some of those online things, Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #52

It would have to be someone licensed to practice in your state SheltieLover Jul 2021 #54

do you have the opportunity to do any volunteer work Skittles Jul 2021 #30

I so relate. ananda Jul 2021 #31

85 here. 3auld6phart Jul 2021 #32

Here's a hug! Scottie Mom Jul 2021 #33

Even if what you accuse yourself of were true, the need to connect with others is good sign ... marble falls Jul 2021 #45

What do you mean by accuse? Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #53

Don't quit emmacom Jul 2021 #46

Thanks for all these replies. Susan Calvin Jul 2021 #48

I am too vercetti2021 Jul 2021 #55