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OldBaldy1701E

(5,393 posts)
19. Wonderful post!
Thu Nov 30, 2023, 12:25 AM
Nov 2023

It was the same lesson I had to learn. Circumstances forced me to move back to my father's house and I drove up his phone bill to the point where it was cut off for a few days and I had to pay it. I finally decided to not try to stay in touch with those people who I thought were my very good friends and see if they contacted me for a change. Guess how many of the five friends that I thought were like brothers and sisters to me actually contacted me? One. ONE. Always remember the chorus to 'Garden Party' by Ricky Nelson. Also remember this old saying from my neck of the woods: There are not enough hours in the day. Apply that amazing nature to things that you appreciate and that appreciate you, V. Like X said, one has to eventually suck it up and accept that those people don't care. And, it is painful. It sure was for me. But, it was also rather cathartic as I realized that I was being too nice again. (Something my husband gives me grief on daily.)

Finally hit a breaking point today [View all] vercetti2021 Nov 2023 OP
I'm sorry you are undergoing cilla4progress Nov 2023 #1
Hmmm..this sounds familiar. Have you sent out a similar message? Deuxcents Nov 2023 #2
We all break down sometimes, we are human. Bluethroughu Nov 2023 #3
you kind of went a bit oveboard but I truly understand the sentiment Shellback Squid Nov 2023 #4
Sounds like you need some hugs. Nonjudgmental hugs. calimary Nov 2023 #5
Preach! vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #14
visualizing peace, ease, and gratitude for you! n/t KatK Nov 2023 #6
don't beat yourself up LoveTheDU Nov 2023 #7
My bestie did vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #13
Hang in there brother kimbutgar Nov 2023 #8
Sister vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #11
Yeah, just give them all socks Warpy Nov 2023 #9
I should for the shelter vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #12
They will be XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #16
Now That's One Holiday Cooking Show I'd Watch!!!.......nt global1 Nov 2023 #10
I'm trying not to constantly reach out XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #15
Here here! vercetti2021 Nov 2023 #17
I need higher self-esteem XanaDUer2 Nov 2023 #18
Wonderful post! OldBaldy1701E Nov 2023 #19
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