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36. My Dad adopted a dog when he was 73 years old
Fri Feb 9, 2018, 06:45 PM
Feb 2018

He was recovering from heart surgery and was told to walk a lot so he got a dog to walk himself around as well as the dog.

Sadly, my Dad died less than 2 years later and that left my mother to care for the dog and she did not mind a bit as she loved dogs.

She took that dog everywhere with her and even flew him on a plane to go visit her foster sister. Her world revolved around the dog and if the dog was not welcome where she was, then she left.

She died a few years later and I stepped up to the plate and swore that I would care for the dog for the rest of his life which included a need to be professionally groomed every six weeks (!) .

I kept my word. The dog lived to be abt. 10 years old and I was devastated when he died!

He was a lovely dog and he got along pretty good with the cats I had at that time. I recall sitting in a recliner crying my eyes out after the dog had died and my old white kitty that lived to be 18 years old jumped on my lap and licked the tears off my cheek. She was such a loving cat and she loved the dog too and missed him greatly.

I have zero regrets and I am glad I was able to care for him until his time came. I am also glad that I was able to do this for Mother as it was really the very least I could do for her and the dog too and I knew that this was the most important thing I could do for her after she was gone and that was to care for her beloved dog which became ... my beloved dog!

As for the cats I have today, I can only hope that should I die that some one some where will "step up to the plate" so to speak. When I begin to worry abt. it, I think to myself, "Had I not adopted these cats from the shelter, they would have been put down if no one had come to adopt them so why should I not adopt and care for them if I can and am willing to do so?".

I just hope I never get to the point that I cannot but I refuse to allow this fear to rule my life as it may be insignificant hopefully. You cannot let fear ruin your life and if having a dog/cat/whatever to make your life better (and the animal's life too) well ... don't allow it to have that much power in your life. That's what I think ...

If you really are concerned you can set-up a "pet trust" but details surrounding this idea have been rather dubious I've noted. That said, it may work very well depending on your situation and if you have money to set-up something like this. It is costly, I know that much.



Dead Glamrock Feb 2018 #1
I like the way you think! n/t phylny Feb 2018 #7
Me too. Sophiegirl Feb 2018 #11
I've got one dog Glamrock Feb 2018 #18
Well, Sophiegirl Feb 2018 #45
You're soooooo right! Glamrock Feb 2018 #46
Yep! Sophiegirl Feb 2018 #47
Agreed! Rebl2 Feb 2018 #21
I love dogs as much as anyone MichMary Feb 2018 #27
That's a good point. Glamrock Feb 2018 #29
My dh's brother and wife MichMary Feb 2018 #30
Ive asked two much younger friends to take responsibility for rehoming my babies when I go.... bettyellen Feb 2018 #53
33 pangaia Feb 2018 #2
Wow, so sorry to hear it. n/t phylny Feb 2018 #12
Thanks. pangaia Feb 2018 #25
My Aunt started adopting older dogs towards the end of her life. redstatebluegirl Feb 2018 #3
This sounds about like what I'd do going into my 70s. phylny Feb 2018 #6
Dead PJMcK Feb 2018 #4
Aw! They're lucky to have you and vice-versa! n/t phylny Feb 2018 #9
In a perfect world, Mr.Bill Feb 2018 #5
I perfectly understand the sentiment. n/t :) phylny Feb 2018 #10
same here TeamPooka Feb 2018 #48
Until the day I die. CatMor Feb 2018 #8
Right now I am without any cats. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2018 #13
I've adopted senior dogs for many years and I've never been disappointed Rhiannon12866 Feb 2018 #14
We are 75/76 and when our last dog died, we decided not to get any more animals shraby Feb 2018 #15
My Dad adopted a dog when he was 73 years old CountAllVotes Feb 2018 #36
I need to change my reply.... Glamrock Feb 2018 #16
I am 54 exboyfil Feb 2018 #17
Maybe think Rebl2 Feb 2018 #26
Thank You exboyfil Feb 2018 #31
I will keep dogs and cats in my life for as long as I possibly can. iscooterliberally Feb 2018 #19
I love my animals... HopeAgain Feb 2018 #20
What great and thoughtful responses! Thank you :) n/t phylny Feb 2018 #22
The greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Mahatma Gandhi Glamrock Feb 2018 #24
The shelter Rebl2 Feb 2018 #23
That's a good shelter. Not the usual poilicies due to overburden in many shelters , but I donate to lunasun Feb 2018 #32
My dad stopped when he was 70. dawg day Feb 2018 #28
Last dog passed on when we were about 65. Then husband's health deteriorated, No Vested Interest Feb 2018 #33
Until I die... Lefta Dissenter Feb 2018 #34
+1000 Pachamama Feb 2018 #35
. Lefta Dissenter Feb 2018 #37
Forever, I hope. Realistically, until I am unable to take care of my feline wonders.... Guilded Lilly Feb 2018 #38
This year at age 70. I'm traveling more and don't think it's fair sinkingfeeling Feb 2018 #39
When I volunteered at a shelter a couple came in with the woman's mother... Lisa0825 Feb 2018 #40
I am 74 and husband 82 and fighting cancer. We know the 3 cats will probably outlive us and appleannie1943 Feb 2018 #41
Maybe call Rebl2 Feb 2018 #49
My two cats look at me as if they realize I could kick the bucket any moment, and are worried about Hoyt Feb 2018 #42
I SAID it when I was 63 catrose Feb 2018 #43
Probably 75. After I had my last Schnauzer put to sleep, I decided I shouldn't get another. Frustratedlady Feb 2018 #44
I won't adopt any more young animals, but I will continue to foster or possibly adopt seniors who japple Feb 2018 #50
Said it two dogs ago. Had an adorable relapse. elfin Feb 2018 #51
If I outlive my cats I'm going to start fostering cats. Or get older cats.That way applegrove Feb 2018 #52
I miss having cats about...... ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2018 #54
80! when my bitch reaches age 20!! quartz007 Feb 2018 #55
I'm an old guy.. Permanut Feb 2018 #56
What a lovely story! snacker Feb 2018 #59
18 trixie2 Feb 2018 #57
I will have a dog, cat or both until I take my last breath. democratisphere Feb 2018 #58
We currently have 5 dogs and we recently slipped into our 70's. Stonepounder Feb 2018 #60
When my last dog died in 1994, I was 46 at the time. I like dogs but doc03 Feb 2018 #61
60 with a - but JustAnotherGen Feb 2018 #62
My wife and I worry about this now Boomer Feb 2018 #63
Such dedicated animal lovers - both the ones who decided "no more" and the ones who are phylny Feb 2018 #64
till i die or have to leave my home. mopinko Feb 2018 #65
I have had pets all my life notawinger Feb 2018 #66
I have had cats in my family all my life...then I met Poochy angstlessk Feb 2018 #67
What a touching story! phylny Feb 2018 #68
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