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In reply to the discussion: My Beautiful BB has crossed the Bridge [View all]emmaverybo
(8,148 posts)not our fight for our loved ones life, is what stands out at first. You saved three and would have saved BB if you could have. Your heart is broken. And you know BBs family is bereft. But they continue because of you. In comforting each other, I believe you will carry on for BB, and his spirit
will make you know he is still among you.
I have not lost a soul-mate animal baby that I didnt look back on and feel I might have done something different or not felt, somehow, I didnt do enough.
I felt this in my mothers case, and friends. Ive had to realize I dont have God-like powers. I could only follow what circumstances and my own limited knowledge told me to in the moment.
You fought to save four of your beloveds. Your broken heart testifies to your wanting desperately to save their lives. Please try to be kind to your broken heart now.
A day at a time, a moment at a time. The best doctors lose patients. The best fur baby guardians lose babies. Your presence and love was what BB knew and needed. For every could have, remember that. BB had your love and care every minute of his life. In sickness and in health, you honored your bond.
May you find comfort in the midst of grief. ❤️