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RealGuyinChicago

(64 posts)
Fri Jul 8, 2022, 10:13 AM Jul 2022

I think my cat is bored. Do I need another cat? [View all]

The cat we adopted a couple of months ago is a neutered male that had been declawed by a previous owner. We play with him (he loves feather toys) and give him all the pets he wants.

But what he really wants to do is roughhouse in a way that gets one of us (my wife or myself) bitten. He doesn't bite hard. I am sure he is being playful. He also tends to bite one of us if he feels ignored -- not often, but enough to make it an issue. I am starting to think he's bored and frustrated at not getting enough of the cat-like play he really likes.

The shelter told us he'd be best in a home without other cats. But I think that was mainly because of his no-front-claws situation.

But I am wondering if what Coltrane needs is a companion he can chase and wrestle with. It'd probably have to be another high-energy cat. We'd almost certainly need to find another declawed shelter cat -- probably about the same age or younger. And I think the other cat should be female to avoid a struggle for alpha-cat status.

What do y'all think?

I am worried that my latent desire to have as many cats as possible could be making me biased toward getting another one. But I also know that cats are more social than many people think.

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I think your cat needs another cat. Ocelot II Jul 2022 #1
I think most pets get bored. I don't think many get enough exercise. LakeArenal Jul 2022 #2
He needs another cat. tblue37 Jul 2022 #3
I vote for a second cat. zuul Jul 2022 #4
Maybe Sanity Claws Jul 2022 #5
Yes Timeflyer Jul 2022 #6
K & R Duppers Jul 2022 #13
Animals need company with their own species. 2naSalit Jul 2022 #7
Cats are not like dogs. Phoenix61 Jul 2022 #8
My wife wants to foster RealGuyinChicago Jul 2022 #11
That sounds like a really good option. nt Phoenix61 Jul 2022 #12
I had one cat then got a second one. LisaL Jul 2022 #9
They are social creatures. Marcuse Jul 2022 #10
Oh my goodness, The Furry Freak Brothers! I remember those comix many years ago. Ziggysmom Jul 2022 #14
I always say piddyprints Jul 2022 #15
We're putting it off for now RealGuyinChicago Jul 2022 #16
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