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Croney

(4,657 posts)
3. Absolutely! Do it!
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 07:42 AM
Nov 2018

We have a lot in common. I quit work at 60 to take care of my daughter's baby, and she had another and another, and they never had anyone but me taking care of them while she worked.

Fast forward... Those kids are now 13, 11, and 9, they don't need babysitting, but we are extremely close.

I started SS at 62, knowing I'd get more if I waited, just because I wanted to. My husband is younger and has worked until now. He just set 1/1/19 as his retirement date and we've chosen a health care plan, which is scary because what if we chose wrong?

He starts SS in January and also starts a monthly withdrawal from his company funds, managed by Fidelity. We moved the money to a safer risk percentage, but still -- the stock market!! I've always kept my own little pension in the most secure option, earning little but losing nothing. I think he should do that too.

Like you, we don't have debt. We paid off our house. We have other grown kids and lots of grandkids, and even great-grandkids, but the only ones who live near us are the daughter and her husband and three kids I see almost every day.

You will be a huge help to your daughter, and the kids will be very lucky. Time flies, we don't know what lies ahead, and you will be a happy person hanging out in a t-shirt and no make-up. You are an extremely valuable person, and can choose to give yourself to the office, or to your family. So exciting! Do it.

My advice to anyone Sherman A1 Nov 2018 #1
First of all, I hereby give you permission whathehell Nov 2018 #2
Absolutely! Do it! Croney Nov 2018 #3
Do it vlyons Nov 2018 #4
My husband is 8 years older than me iwillalwayswonderwhy Nov 2018 #5
I agree duforsure Nov 2018 #6
Freddie, I have been retired 3 years come February. TexasProgresive Nov 2018 #7
Enjoy those Grand kids Soxfan58 Nov 2018 #8
Of your gut says yes snowybirdie Nov 2018 #9
If you have some doubts maybe talk to a financial advisor first and think over what they say mart48 Nov 2018 #10
I retired 3 years ago. TNNurse Nov 2018 #11
Enjoy your grandkids.. I'm jealous.. mountain grammy Nov 2018 #12
The last paragraph says it all. Do it. 3Hotdogs Nov 2018 #13
My understanding marked50 Nov 2018 #16
I heard that option had changed. That's why I said to check with S.S. before trying to do it. 3Hotdogs Nov 2018 #17
You're doing the right thing! DFW Nov 2018 #14
I went at 63, in Pa. watoos Nov 2018 #15
My parents were retired teachers Freddie Nov 2018 #21
Go for it. LiberalBrooke Nov 2018 #18
Only you know if retiring is right Raven123 Nov 2018 #19
I only told my boss I'd give her plenty of notice Freddie Nov 2018 #22
Gotcha. Raven123 Nov 2018 #25
Go for it. I retired at 59 and haven't regretted it for a minute. I miss seeing my friends at catbyte Nov 2018 #20
I retired last June and have never looked back. mglamb Nov 2018 #23
Well, since you asked... zaj Nov 2018 #24
I am not opposed to daycare at all Freddie Nov 2018 #26
If you can... and you want... zaj Nov 2018 #27
Retire H2O Man Nov 2018 #28
I retired at 70. Just went back to work at 72. wasupaloopa Nov 2018 #29
Being with your grandchildren is the best work WhiteTara Nov 2018 #30
I do payroll Freddie Nov 2018 #31
Yes, you could not leave them now WhiteTara Nov 2018 #33
I retired on my very first day of eligibility Siwsan Nov 2018 #32
Family first mitch96 Nov 2018 #34
Go for it! It sounds like you have a great plan. woodsprite Nov 2018 #35
Thank you so much for this thread. I'm ready to retire, but not ready to retire. AnotherMother4Peace Nov 2018 #36
It is scary, isn't it? Freddie Nov 2018 #37
Congratulations! You've taken the first step. Callalily Nov 2018 #38
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