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9. I concur with your diagnosis that your band had mortgaged its potential.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:11 PM
Aug 2019

Last edited Tue May 11, 2021, 12:37 AM - Edit history (11)

If I had been you, I would have quit. But if I had been the bassist, you wouldn't have had to.

I would have considered the "non-musical" nature of the "new" compliments to be a serious problem -- and I would have tried to solve it by turning down the dial on my "stage presence" AND turning up the dial on my musical skills.

As talented as she may have been, she clearly wasn't talented enough to either offset her looks OR help contribute to the continuation of comments about how good the entire band was -- which your other bandmates also should have noticed.


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