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mzteris

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3. it's a miracle any of them
Sat Feb 9, 2013, 01:09 PM
Feb 2013

make it past fourteen!

Yes, I'm hoping he'll grow up and realize what an ass he is. I'm afraid when he hits highschool someone is going to beat the crap out of that kid. He is VERY annoying and always has been. An extreme smart ass - but not very "smart" at it, if you know what I mean.

Of course, my son - should someone try to beat the crap out of that kid - would probably intervene for him. Of course, he'd intervene for just about anyone if they're getting beat up by someone else. He's very compassionate and empathetic (but don't poke that teddy bear because he could become a grizzly if he's poked too hard!)

I've always told him not to start any fights, to walk away from anyone trying to fight him (he doesn't have to "prove" anything.) And to try and defuse any situation with words. However, he DOES have my permission to help anyone who might need it - and suspension be damned. (Not just the usual guys rolling around type of thing, but any knd of real - one kid is getting the shit beat out of them for no reason by some bully type of thing and there's no adult around to take care of it.)

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That's truly sad for your son. Glassunion Feb 2013 #1
I hope that kid can make it past 14, and get some sense. immoderate Feb 2013 #2
it's a miracle any of them mzteris Feb 2013 #3
When one is a kid pipoman Feb 2013 #4
Please give your son a hug from me Smilo Feb 2013 #5
You should read Randall Kennedy's book FunkyLeprechaun Feb 2013 #6
All is well that ends well... ReRe Feb 2013 #7
I'm curious: If the kid had black, curly hair instead of "flaming red" hair..... Smarmie Doofus Feb 2013 #8
It seems he is objecting... awoke_in_2003 Feb 2013 #11
I understand your point. mzteris Feb 2013 #28
Sorry for your son..He does sound quite mature. Agree completely on the "reclaiming" thing whathehell Feb 2013 #9
You have raised an awesome son. SheilaT Feb 2013 #10
HEAR! HEAR! heaven05 Feb 2013 #12
If this "friend" was saying this word at 8 yrs old, then he was probably repeating the word. glowing Feb 2013 #13
I think the OP means the friend just *recently* started using this word, and tblue37 Feb 2013 #25
No, it says clearly at the beginning that the child said the word at 8, and nearly got glowing Feb 2013 #27
No - his mother is appalled mzteris Feb 2013 #29
Then you are right, he's probably being a smart assed kid. And yes, Mom needed to lay down a little glowing Feb 2013 #33
As teens, it's something they will grow out of, imo Blue_Tires Feb 2013 #41
The youth of NAACP had a 'funeral' for the n-word several years ago duhneece Feb 2013 #14
I don't think ANYONE should use mzteris Feb 2013 #30
Please see the play 'The Vagina Monologues' by Eve Ensler duhneece Feb 2013 #35
Your son remembers the epithet incident TomClash Feb 2013 #15
Can I say it ? I do not know lunasun Feb 2013 #16
Don't like the "w" word either. mzteris Feb 2013 #31
Your son sounds like a great kid ... kudos! brett_jv Feb 2013 #17
But I've noticed its more of a drawn out "A" sound at the end of the word and not a pointed glowing Feb 2013 #22
I fully agree with this bit Number23 Feb 2013 #24
My son is black. mzteris Feb 2013 #32
He's young enough not to understand the reason socialindependocrat Feb 2013 #18
Sounds like you have a great kiddo libodem Feb 2013 #19
I feel bad for your son. Also feel good for him. timdog44 Feb 2013 #20
People come into your life for a season Coolest Ranger Feb 2013 #21
I'm of the mindset that black people can use whatever words we want to describe ourselves Number23 Feb 2013 #23
Yup. aquart Feb 2013 #26
Yup JustAnotherGen Feb 2013 #42
Any word that has to be abbreviated Flying Squirrel Feb 2013 #34
This friend seems to be having a problem at home. Festivito Feb 2013 #36
I've always thought mzteris Feb 2013 #38
Sounds like two or three locked problems. Festivito Feb 2013 #39
Thank you. mzteris Feb 2013 #40
Wise advice. grantcart Feb 2013 #37
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