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(69,352 posts)As a white person, I wince when other whites point out that "we" "gave" rights to others. The white men standing in the schoolhouse door didn't just hand over rights one day out of the goodness of their hearts. They got out-strategized by brilliant, courageous people like MLK who forced the issue. Sure, some white people helped - rode the freedom buses, registered voters, and some of them got killed too, but the strategy and the courage started within the oppressed group first and it was the millions of black people who fought in their own ways for so long that forced the change.
Same with the women who forced men to share the vote.
And same, on a quieter level, with the gay families who started adopting children and giving birth to children and showing up at PTA meetings and Little League sign-ups and church suppers and said you will honor and accept my children and our family. And that's what ultimately led to marriage equality.