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onpatrol98

(1,989 posts)
25. How very arrogant??
Sun Nov 24, 2013, 09:39 AM
Nov 2013

I'm not even talking about the DUer using anecdotal information. DU is notoriously clueless when it comes to matters of race.

But, exactly what variables go into an ultimate decision that the US is less racial. I needed a good laugh. Do they include the intimate experiences of a nation of minorities?

Do they include the heartache of sitting your children down to discuss the rules of walking, driving, and breathing while black in America?

Do they include the feelings of a parent looking for the right moment to explain to a biracial child what color they are? Because it matters in the USA.

As for the anecdotes of a well meaning non minority liberal...I tend to find them almost as dangerous as true racists. Because they get to glide in a parallel world of cluelessness.

Our children die daily in the real world...as they ponder and pontificate on whether one country is perceived as less racist than another.

There are non-minorities that make it their life's work to support the just cause of equal rights and social justice. I applaud their effort. I am impressed with their output. But, it will never equate with living the life. If at the end of the day, you can return to a safe world or cocoon in a country with built in privileges that you'll never see, much less acknowledge....including the privilege of assuming that proof of less racism could exist. How utterly ridiculous...

There is no checklist to a life. When I kiss my 8 year old and tuck him in at night or hold him close, the fear I feel inside is real. Quantify that. Where does my anecdote go?

The disgust I have right now, that this academic exercise in judging racism is perceived as credible because someone has "concrete evidence". Seriously???



I am not alerting on this, even though it's a call-out. Laelth Nov 2013 #1
It's completely false BainsBane Nov 2013 #3
I think you might benefit from learning something about foreign countries. Laelth Nov 2013 #7
But what is your experience in America? JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #8
Here, if you're interested. Laelth Nov 2013 #9
Thank you JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #15
You make a lot of assumptions BainsBane Nov 2013 #10
This - very well done BB JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #16
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2013 #33
Yeah, so is mine heaven05 Jan 2014 #38
How very arrogant?? onpatrol98 Nov 2013 #25
That's it onpatrol98 JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #27
Girl, I got CHILLS reading this Number23 Nov 2013 #30
I bookmarked this thread for this reply. LiberalAndProud Dec 2013 #37
That's a first. BainsBane Nov 2013 #2
Least racist you say? brush Nov 2013 #4
Here's what I can say that might be useful. Laelth Nov 2013 #5
What other countries? JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #6
The Voting Rights Act was enacted because the Reconstruction Amendments were ignored BainsBane Nov 2013 #11
Those laws gollygee Nov 2013 #13
Is that person a racial minority? Number23 Nov 2013 #12
He/She is a criminal JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #17
My heart bleeds, literally bleeds, for his/her clients Number23 Nov 2013 #18
I was sick yesterday or I might have seen that in the thread gollygee Nov 2013 #14
We're surprisingly better than much of Europe LittleBlue Nov 2013 #19
Fair point JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #20
Europe really is struggling with this and has been for centuries Number23 Nov 2013 #21
I agree JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #22
Oh girl, it's been way longer than August. A loud, ignorant and embarrasingly clueless group have Number23 Nov 2013 #23
People might be outspoken and say really mean nasty things gollygee Nov 2013 #24
You nailed it! JustAnotherGen Nov 2013 #26
I take a deep breath ..., 1StrongBlackMan Nov 2013 #28
This ^^^^ M0rpheus Nov 2013 #29
Hell yeah Number23 Nov 2013 #31
Probably because I'm "NQW!" MADem Nov 2013 #34
True that ... 1StrongBlackMan Nov 2013 #32
Not anywhere close TJ-Tretman Dec 2013 #35
I would suggest ... 1StrongBlackMan Dec 2013 #36
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